to tip or not to tip?

[msgme]

Lately I've been seeing girls that just go for a bbbj without me asking nor do they ask for a tip so I just leave without paying. Is it common courtesy to tip anyway? I do this everytime and they don't seem to mind, maybe they think its better to keep me coming back than to charge me an extra 50 and risk losing a regular? What y'all think is the right thing to do?

 

[Old No. 7]

Where are you going and who are you seeing to get these bbbjs without asking?

 

[gottahobby]

If you repeat do they volunteer a bbbj the second or third time you visit with no tip?

I always tip 50 for a bbbj, even if the lady tries to refuse it (a rare event, but it has happened).

 

[Bananafruit]

I've done bbbj+bbfs no tip at Perla. Just the straight $150 for 40 min.

Edit/Add: In 2016 with Grace. I think this was actually at Pure not Perla. Whatever the name of the Eglinton location is called. Never saw Grace again after as her schedule never matched mine and she left in 2016. Also no tip with Lucy in 2016 at Studio 9. Studio 9 location is inconvenient for me so the only times I ever went back were to see Lynda. Tried not tipping Lynda but she wouldn't have any of that lol and gave her $50 on top of the $150 but she did ask for $100 tip for fs. I wanted some variety and switched to Sophia in 2017 at Perla the Victoria Park location one. No tip the first time but this was by accident. The second time wanted to tip her $50 but she left the room after the session and I never saw her outside. Then she went on vacation and I haven't seen her since. Kind of embarrassed if she remembers me as the cheap ass no-tipper.

 

[1stTimer]

I've done bbbj+bbfs no tip at Perla. Just the straight $150 for 40 min.

who was it with?

 

[Hangdai]

who was it with?

Oh fuck, here we go...,.

 

[trhpierre]

I've done bbbj+bbfs no tip at Perla. Just the straight $150 for 40 min.

Edit/Add: In 2016 with Grace. I think this was actually at Pure not Perla. Whatever the name of the Eglinton location is called. Never saw Grace again after as her schedule never matched mine and she left in 2016. Also no tip with Lucy in 2016 at Studio 9. Studio 9 location is inconvenient for me so the only times I ever went back were to see Lynda. Tried not tipping Lynda but she wouldn't have any of that lol and gave her $50 on top of the $150 but she did ask for $100 tip for fs. I wanted some variety and switched to Sophia in 2017 at Perla the Victoria Park location one. No tip the first time but this was by accident. The second time wanted to tip her $50 but she left the room after the session and I never saw her outside. Then she went on vacation and I haven't seen her since. Kind of embarrassed if she remembers me as the cheap ass no-tipper.

I take it you must be handsome & good looking and the ladies adore your physique to get all these freebies. I wish I have your look.

 

[gottahobby]

FWIW at most of the higher end spas the girls tell each other about low or no-tippers,
which may or may not affect your future sessions at those spas, depending of course on whether or not you are "God's gift to women" lol

 

[Whiteboy]

FWIW at most of the higher end spas the girls tell each other about low or no-tippers,
which may or may not affect your future sessions at those spas, depending of course on whether or not you are "God's gift to women" lol

That’s for sure. Say what you want. He’s just a cheap ass!!

 

[msgme]

Where are you going and who are you seeing to get these bbbjs without asking?

Various girls at Premier... I stopped tipping them after my 2nd visit and they still just go for the bbbj every time, I don't even need to ask, some even let me CIM. I've seen these girls at least 5 times each now without tipping. That's at least $250 in savings that I can use to go more frequently or try out other girls. I'm just gonna keep doing what I'm doing if they don't give me a bbbj or ask me for money before starting it I'm gonna find another girl who doesn't ask for tips.

 

[Pay2Play]

Seriously? If they do it without question then take it for what it’s worth! If you feel somewhat guilty or if you get sucked in for a return visit than tip! They win...lol

There’s too many options out there. Enjoy each experience as a great memory and then move on.

 

[Barney_B]

We all know nothing is free. Don't be a douche bag. If you had a 'fair' dollar amount, pay it and leave.

 

[Potato]

I mentioned this on another thread, I was asking my regular girl at S9 (who is now permanently retired and long gone), about the tips. She straight up told me she doesn't charge anything extra. She said "I'm happy with whatever they give me, and if they don't give anything I'm happy that they come see me". She said she would always do cbj for free. Now, after reading her reviews, I know she did bbbj and cfs with some guys and knowing her and given what she told me, that would have been free too. So everyone that tipped her $50 and $100 was just really really nice because in her mind the charge for doing that was $0.

Personally, I'm somewhere in the middle about this. I think if the girl does what is considered extra and has the attitude "I'm just happy that they come see me, no charge" then thats her choice. I wouldn't tip 50 or 100 in that case, but give her something if she did a good job. Thats the happy middle ground for me.

 

[luvthe drake]

Various girls at Premier... I stopped tipping them after my 2nd visit and they still just go for the bbbj every time, I don't even need to ask, some even let me CIM. I've seen these girls at least 5 times each now without tipping. That's at least $250 in savings that I can use to go more frequently or try out other girls. I'm just gonna keep doing what I'm doing if they don't give me a bbbj or ask me for money before starting it I'm gonna find another girl who doesn't ask for tips.

maybe they're giving you more than what you bargained for..time for as trip to free clinic../

 

[krayjee]

In the early days at Perla, some of the girls are doing BBBJ and BBFS without asking any tips just to keep guys as regulars. I was surprised when they told me no need to tip extra but they were happy and showed appreciation when I pushed the money into their hands. Lynda and Michelle to name a few and another aggressive BBBJ Vietnamese girl I couldn't recall the name. She will go straight for BBBJ right after the flip without being asked. I always tip something anyways no matter who it was so long as they were nice and no mention of money. Even Zoey didn't ask for tips in her early days at Pure.

 

[Goose]

This has happened to me 4 times in 2019. Three times at studio 9 with two different attendants after telling them I had no tip as they started giving me a bbbj they said "that's fine no problem". Also once at seduction when I made a mpa cum after giving her daty and she started to suck me off and told her I had no tip money she said " I owe you for making me cum". Sometimes these girls are so horny and into the session that no tip is required. I'll take it

 

[newtothis82]

Sometimes I put the tip in and sometimes more than the tip

 

[RealBadman]

Lately I've been seeing girls that just go for a bbbj without me asking nor do they ask for a tip so I just leave without paying. Is it common courtesy to tip anyway? I do this everytime and they don't seem to mind, maybe they think its better to keep me coming back than to charge me an extra 50 and risk losing a regular? What y'all think is the right thing to do?

I never going in planning to have extras and I don't carry extra cash with me for tips. Sometimes I get the odd girl who just goes in for extras but I'm always upfront about the fact that I don't have money for a tip, and it's her call if she wants to continue anyway. Sometimes they outright refuse, sometimes they BS their way out of it, but sometimes they don't have a problem. Usually it's free BJs but I've managed to get FS free a couple times. I don't and never will tip for standard service.

Personally I say it for the most part the key thing is to find out beforehand if tipping for extras is expected. If I'm the one to ask then I fully expect that I will have to pay extra. If she offers then I always ask if she wants more money before she continues. First and foremost I consider my repeat business the main incentive. Also as some others have said sometimes these girls really just do get horny during a session and they need to scratch the itch somehow. I do find other ways to "thank" her if she does give free extras, a couple of times I brought the girl takeout after a session. With a couple other girls I would bring booze or weed every time I saw her. Or if I'm a regular and get consistent good service from her I'll grab her a gift card or something.

 

[Catman]

Various girls at Premier... I stopped tipping them after my 2nd visit and they still just go for the bbbj every time, I don't even need to ask, some even let me CIM. I've seen these girls at least 5 times each now without tipping. That's at least $250 in savings that I can use to go more frequently or try out other girls. I'm just gonna keep doing what I'm doing if they don't give me a bbbj or ask me for money before starting it I'm gonna find another girl who doesn't ask for tips.

Lol

 

[spincity]

This has happened to me at a couple A spas as well that I frequent. And here I thought I was special. When I asked 1 particular mpa about it she says you see me a lot so its ok just don't tell my name. Another one who was new at the time I told her you have no clue what you are doing with bj, and she says will you teach me? When the classes ended she would not accept tips. She is now quite the superstar according to her reports. Maybe I could start a school lol.