The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

[wishmaker88]

Maybe but Asoboo sucks.
I am in my early 30s, nice looking tall and slim and I have met at least 7 or 8 girls from Asoboo.
They are all ugly and they are looking for serious boyfriend.
And one was a whore.
Did not meet any 25 year old girl looking for wild sex with gaijin

 

[Slappy LaRue]

The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

that one that poses sums herself up with her ideas. she thinks she could be possibly blackmailed by these men for posing in school clothes ? she aint bright. also she has a low opinion of the guys but she is participating too, and this type of thinking is a serious flaw.also when men only value youth and women buy into it , i hope our retail clerk had enough sense to save her money.personally at age 50 i cant get young woemn and maybe better off for it too, course when or if I pay I dont choose an old whore since there aint many of them.woemn are sexy if thwey are aware of their sexuality. and havent let everything expand, (men too)as long as I am getting my sexual needs met i usually a satisfied fella, what not?

 

[Maria L]

The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

Naughty schoolgirls graduate from compensated dating to contracted lovers


Ami struts through Tokyo's trendy Shibuya district, her shapely legs highlighted by a checked miniskirt.

"I wish my legs were a bit thinner," the 19-year-old tells Shukan Post (10/7), echoing the wish of nearly all Japanese women.

Ami also makes about 100,000 yen a month working as a private photographer's model.

"There's always at least three people for every shoot. And none of them can be acquainted with the others. If you have at least three strangers together, none of them would be prepared to try anything risky by themselves," Ami tells Shukan Post.

"Basically, I get into my uniform and let them take photos of me. I occasionally flash my panties or get changed into my P.E. bloomers or school swimsuit."

For every shoot, Ami receives 20,000 yen cash from each participant.

"I'm not selling my body. I don't let those dirty old men touch me. I always cover my face entirely so you can't tell who's in the photo and they can't come back to me blackmailing me by threatening to expose me," Ami says, adding that for an extra 5,000 yen she'll show off her bust and double that sum gets a peep at her privates.

Ami is one of the schoolgirl successors to Japan's enjo kosai generation. Enjo kosai is a euphemism used to describe prostitution, especially by schoolgirls, and translates literally as "compensated dating."

Enjo kosai started in the early '90s. By the middle of the decade, it had become one of Japan's biggest social problems as schoolgirls went around in packs selling their bodies to buy designer label clothes and accessories. In 1997, prefectures across the country started outlawing the dating clubs the girls were using to pick up clients. That drove the business online and dating sites thrived.
Now, however, though enjo kosai may not be as blatant as the prostitution it was when running rampant, it persists in subtler forms like that employed by Ami, or by becoming a "contract lover" as 18-year-old Sachi has chosen to do.

"My patrons are a 30-something accountant and a foodstuffs company manager of about 50," Sachi tells Shukan Post. "Neither of them looks like my ideal type, but they're both gentlemen and they both flash the cash. They pay me 60,000 yen a month each. For that, we meet for sex about three times a month."

Sachi schemes to make sure she continues to make a living.

"People get sick of you if you keep doing the same things all the time. So, I keep things fresh, occasionally turning up dressed in a nurse's costume or decked out like a race grid girl," she says.

Some schoolgirls who've made out monthly contracts with men take an even more professional approach. Akina, a 18-year-old from Kanagawa Prefecture, has contracts with five men who pay her 50,000 yen a month whether they meet or not. (The 250,000 yen she gets is more than the starting wage for most recent university graduates.) As well as classes, Akina also keeps up her 900-yen per hour convenience store job.

"If you lose that innocence, you're no different to the average sex worker. These guys are paying me 50,000 yen a month because they want a high school girl," Akina tells Shukan Post. "No matter how much money I get, I really take care to make sure that my attitude and attitude toward money don't change too much." (By Ryann Connell)

September 27, 2005



http://mdn.mainichi-msn.co.jp/waiwai/news/p20050927p2g00m0dm007000c.html

 

[GranolaMom]

The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

Try to remember one thing about Japan: It's a level playing field, meaning
1 They don't need your money
2 They hunt, shag and dump us the same way we do them
That's equality campers.

 

[Will in TN]

The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

the site does not work so well, maybe one answer after 100 inquiries. I suspect too many gaijins there..

 

[keep it classic]

The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

i think it is the same than everywhere. if u r new in town, u wont find very easy any girl like these, except that u go to shibuya where u ll find many schoolgirls at night in the bars around the main 3 floors starbucks in hachiko station main exit but they dont speak english.

in my opinion is like this, u meet a girl in a bar, specially in Roppongi, u go out once and then on the second date u begin to give her gifts and u keep her happy with presents. but as i said, is the same than everywhere. in ropongi, girls are more like screw like crazy one night and bye bye they will look another guy to screw, so if u want to keep seeing her, u have to begin to give her presents. if u r a handsome young guy. no problem, but if u r over 35 , then presents tend to be necessary if u want to keep screwing that pretty 22 jap girl u met in a bar.

they dont want money because they of course dont see themselves as "official" prostitutes. i would say is more sex for fun. after all, most japanese dont make less than 2000 dollars per month in tokyo, so dont expect to find cheap sex in here. expect to find easy girls that is different.

if u want schoolgirls, i know some websites but i suppose u dont know japanese so no point to tell u. these are the kind of girls who are more willing to sell themselves for a couple of hours to buy a Hermes or Ferragano bag, a new cell phone.

It is kind of strange, since many of them attend 15.000 dollars per year highschools and so on, but well their parents dont give them all the brand bags they want so since they r rebel teenagers they go into paid sex to get more yens to buy more fashion bags.

girls in university, if they want money for sex then go directly into prostitution, so forget it, the schoolgirls because they live with their parents, they screw for sometimes even only 100 dollars but as i said u can find them most of time only in japanese websites.

anyway if u know japanese, let me know PM me and i can tell u websites in japanese where u will find highschoolgirls to meet u in a "love hotel", screw and bye bye.

check my post in tokyo area about www.asoboo.com, u can find many girls here between 18 to 25 who u can lie saying u r living in japan and when u come to japan ask them out and then screw them for free. in asoboo most of them speak english or at least a little. the best about asoboo is that u can screw for free and they r not prostitutes, they are just girls who want to have fun a little with foreigners, have a foreign boyfriend, etc. u just tell them what they want to hear and u will get laid. anyway check my post then.

schoolgirls dont speak english, so this myth, that is a bit true, u wont be able to enter at least u speak very good japanese.

Bloggerguy

 

[Who <3]

The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

you can meet girls here, buy them stuff, and get laid, same as anywhere. you can often get away with skipping the middle step too. i think girls who date more explicitly in exchange for material goods work though businesses, organizations, websites, and cellphones, requiring at least japanese language and possiblity ethnicity.

for day to day life, the very high perceneforum.xxxe of girls you see dressed as schoolgirls here are actually schoogirls. i'm talking 99% or more. many dress slutty because it's fashionable or they like the attention, who knows. you could possibly pick them up but that doesn't mean you should.

as for cops here, they don't do much at all, they're definitely not going to approach you and ask what you're doing with a girl.

so i think paid dating exists but is both hard and unnecessary for westerners to break into.

 

[dijahtude08]

The Myth of the Japanese "Girlfriend"

In one of many articles i have read about the sex industry/culture in Japan, is the myth about the "girlfriend"...Instead of the traditional prostitute (where you walk up to one, jive a bit, and pay....etc...), here you buy her gifts...but the kicker is that the amount of gifts and their respective value is what dictates how much "action" you get from them.....In North American terms, they are gold-diggers but they know that they are prostitutes...

You would pick up a girl,...sometimes they dress like a school-girl, sometimes as a super-slutty school-girl, or in modern western slutty a la Brittney Spears rip-off,...you pick them up, introduce yourselves, then she suggests to go shopping....and so you would....and basically you would foot the bill for anything she wants.....clothes, make-up, CDs, DVDs, cell-phones...etc....then determining the price of the gift will get you whatever she thinks is reasonable for sexual favours....some examples I've seen are...

buying clothing will get you a hand job, cell-phone could get you a blow job, shopping then a movie then a dinner could get full-service....for example...

But my problem is.....after reading on these kind of rumours....is this real?...and where in Japan....Tokyo for that matter....where can you find these girls.....

To me, with all these reported crackdowns on prostitution, it seems that these types of Street Workers seem to have found a loop-hole in the system...

Like:
Cop: "Hey there!...Are you solicting this prostitute?"
You: "No sir, I'm buying gifts for my 'girlfriend'"...