Signs of addiction to this hobby

[luvnewpussy]

Lol ...ahahaha ..this is a great summary of the journey.

Stage 5 for me... I have a appointment already booked for tonight..
Yeah now its directing the type of scenario I want to experience..with mixing diffrent looks..duo's.. fetishs etc..etc.

I surpassed 1500 easily on repeats and exploring ..everytime I find a ultimate scenario to make me retire like a ..duo..type of girl..getting her to do what I want ..from lfk to getting her to PSE. .in comes a brand new girl..and the process starts all over agian..and yeah where is this magic dragon ....lol

 

[Barney_B]

Stage 1:
Curiosity -> What the fuck, I'm bored, I'll try it out
- oh my god what if I caught something?

Stage 2:
Overcoming fear -> 6 months later
- I don't think I caught anything the first time, it was so easy, I'll go back once

Stage 3:
Jumping right in -> You've probably caught all kinds o herpes and HPV and are now going once a month ($100-$250 per month)
- ahhh, I'm only spending $100-250 a month it's manageable...it's a hobby

Stage 4:
Continued escalation -> You're now going multiple times a month ($300-$800 per month)
- ok, i'm spending way too much money on this but I have to try out that other chick, and do a duo, and see 3 different women in a row, and do a couple of hours with my favourite

Stage 5:
I can't get my fix aka "chasing the dragon" -> You're now going multiple times a week ($1 000+ per month)
- Wow, you're spending way too much on a "hobby", this ain't model airplanes, but i have to do a blonde, and a blonde with a blonde Vietnamese girl from Thailand with an indian and a mexican stripper dancing in one corner while a black chick is watching and masturbating in the other corner, and it isn't even satisfying anymore and i'm doing shit i thought i would never do

Stage 6:
Detoxing Stage A -> (fast forward 3 - 3.5 years from initial visit) this is nuts
- you're down to once a month because you realized it was out of hand

Stage 7:
Detoxing Stage B -> massage sabotage
- you've gone twice in the last 4.5 months, you've visited people you know will leave you underwhelmed so you don't want to come back, you try to do a walk-in when you know you haven't got the slightest chance of getting a walk-in appointment with someone, and you need to stop reading this fucking forum and visiting Twitter and spa websites

You have earned the PhD of Hobbying.

Personally I got to Stage 5 and quickly realized that it was not sustainable from a financial and risk pov.

I find myself at a stage that I would call 5.5 based on your scale. The "Active Management Stage" means that your recognize the problem however not ready to cut loose. So you create a tiered system in which you are ok to spend $100 for a massage and HE and $200 on a FS session. So for $500/month, you can get action each week of the month.

And I allow myself to spend more for that "once in a life time moment" the odd time. But she better be special. Really, really special.

 

[xtc27]

$ of hobbying versus...?

$ of gf/mistress...Dinner&movie plus hotel room or regular gifts, shared vacations?

This hobby is cheap.

When you stop seeing a spa girl, nothing bad happens to family pets.

 

[AJ007]

Lol

 

[AJ007]

You guys can definitely do a good stand up comedy on Saturday night...

 

[AJ007]

I can share my own share of shit...
Got a taste of Seeking for around a year started in London (UK) before landing in Toronto and thought about making it big here...got off to a great start...met few gorgeous looking girls and the last one was a stunner...took her to an upscale hotel downtown and had great session..came home...texted her back from my personal phone and wanted to see her again soon and big mistake...left my phone on the table and when she texted back, the wife found out about her and called her to get more info...and guess what !!! She asked for $500 to tell all...wtf !!!! That was 3 years ago...

 

[luvnewpussy]

Lesson...never use personal phone for any hobbying get text+ or burner phone .

 

[AJ007]

Yeah...was naive mate thinking it would not happen to me...was a painful few years away from the ’hobby’...but strategy has changed now...new second phone only kept in the office....

 

[Pay2Play]

I can share my own share of shit...
Got a taste of Seeking for around a year started in London (UK) before landing in Toronto and thought about making it big here...got off to a great start...met few gorgeous looking girls and the last one was a stunner...took her to an upscale hotel downtown and had great session..came home...texted her back from my personal phone and wanted to see her again soon and big mistake...left my phone on the table and when she texted back, the wife found out about her and called her to get more info...and guess what !!! She asked for $500 to tell all...wtf !!!! That was 3 years ago...

That was your mistake. That is an entry level mistake.

 

[AJ007]

Totally...

 

[Barney_B]

$ of hobbying versus...?

$ of gf/mistress...Dinner&movie plus hotel room or regular gifts, shared vacations?

This hobby is cheap.

When you stop seeing a spa girl, nothing bad happens to family pets.

When you put it like that, hobbying is cheaper than having a gf/mistress.

 

[Barney_B]

Lesson...never use personal phone for any hobbying get text+ or burner phone .

Hope it wasn't too bad when you SO found your phone/text.

I normally delete all message from escort/agency/spa and then block the number until I have the urge.

 

[Hangdai]

Hope it wasn't too bad when you SO found your phone/text.

I normally delete all message from escort/agency/spa and then block the number until I have the urge.

I’m just gonna do walk-ins at the local spa from now on, the excitement of the unknown, no phone needed at all, and definitely no chance of drama or self inflicted expectations with these sex workers anymore.

 

[OG_funguy]

I’m just gonna do walk-ins at the local spa from now on, the excitement of the unknown, no phone needed at all, and definitely no chance of drama or self inflicted expectations with these sex workers anymore.

Ah, I wish I could go back to the good old days where once a month or so, I would just walk into a spa and take whoever greeted me (since I was mostly looking for massage those days, looks didn't matter that much and I would only leave if they were truly horrendous).

One of the best hj's I ever had in my life was at this place near Leslie and Steeles (2nd floor of some plaza). When I got there, it actually looked somewhat legit and the MPA that greeted me had some sort of nurse uniform on. Everything seemed legit until I finally heard those magic words "do you want to turn over?". The hj was nice and slow as if she worshipped my dick and her technique was just so incredible. Man, sometimes these low mileage experiences with lots of build up are the best.

These days I'm seeing the same faves every week for basically the same (albiet nice) experience each time. And branching out to some of the well known places has just been so-so (those ladies are too experienced and "business-like" to give a truly unique experience). I guess I need to go back to hunting at some of these smaller, less known places...like you said, the excitement of the unknown can be quite powerful.

 

[krayjee]

Ah, I wish I could go back to the good old days where once a month or so, I would just walk into a spa and take whoever greeted me (since I was mostly looking for massage those days, looks didn't matter that much and I would only leave if they were truly horrendous).

One of the best hj's I ever had in my life was at this place near Leslie and Steeles (2nd floor of some plaza). When I got there, it actually looked somewhat legit and the MPA that greeted me had some sort of nurse uniform on. Everything seemed legit until I finally heard those magic words "do you want to turn over?". The hj was nice and slow as if she worshipped my dick and her technique was just so incredible. Man, sometimes these low mileage experiences with lots of build up are the best.

These days I'm seeing the same faves every week for basically the same (albiet nice) experience each time. And branching out to some of the well known places has just been so-so (those ladies are too experienced and "business-like" to give a truly unique experience). I guess I need to go back to hunting at some of these smaller, less known places...like you said, the excitement of the unknown can be quite powerful.

Are you talking about Jenny from the spa above the Star Bucks. She is very pretty but no shower didn't do it for me. I believe the spa name is M&N or something like that.

 

[Mnb2019]

Ah, I wish I could go back to the good old days where once a month or so, I would just walk into a spa and take whoever greeted me (since I was mostly looking for massage those days, looks didn't matter that much and I would only leave if they were truly horrendous).

One of the best hj's I ever had in my life was at this place near Leslie and Steeles (2nd floor of some plaza). When I got there, it actually looked somewhat legit and the MPA that greeted me had some sort of nurse uniform on. Everything seemed legit until I finally heard those magic words "do you want to turn over?". The hj was nice and slow as if she worshipped my dick and her technique was just so incredible. Man, sometimes these low mileage experiences with lots of build up are the best.

These days I'm seeing the same faves every week for basically the same (albiet nice) experience each time. And branching out to some of the well known places has just been so-so (those ladies are too experienced and "business-like" to give a truly unique experience). I guess I need to go back to hunting at some of these smaller, less known places...like you said, the excitement of the unknown can be quite powerful.

A&M spa 1575 Steeles ave east #105, definitely lesser known.

Until now.....

 

[OG_funguy]

Are you talking about Jenny from the spa above the Star Bucks. She is very pretty but no shower didn't do it for me. I believe the spa name is M&N or something like that.

The other poster has the correct address. I believe it's a Second Cup and not Starbucks (but could be wrong though). I remember having some pizza and coffee after the massage so everything in one convenient place...mind you this was a while back so not sure of the ladies these days.

 

[AJ007]

Finding out the number on my phone was the worse ever...all close relatives knew about this and my good guy identity went out through the roof within seconds....

 

[OG_funguy]

Finding out the number on my phone was the worse ever...all close relatives knew about this and my good guy identity went out through the roof within seconds....

Did your marriage survive this?

 

[Hangdai]

Finding out the number on my phone was the worse ever...all close relatives knew about this and my good guy identity went out through the roof within seconds....

I tell everyone that I see prostitutes, all my relatives, my family, I even went down to the local police station to tell them what I do, ..... oh wait....., that’s not me,
That’s @Ursus

If you’ve been on here long enough, you know what mean, lol.