sex tips please for a newbie?

[jan]

I slept with my boyfriend for the first time last night, except we didn't quite go all the way. I'm quite small and he is big (downstairs) and he just couldn't get all the way in. Any hints tips on anything I can do to prepare for next time? Or what we could do differently. It was pretty painful for me.

Thanks!

 

[Clever_Clogs]

Okay, i just hope your old enough. You can buy Durex lubracant, from chemists or superdrug and no one will bat an eyelid....or just use vaseline, people will think its for your lips? Just go slow and be comfurtable with eachother x

 

[stuck cook]

The trick is to make sure you are well lubricated before he enters you. This can either by being really turned on so you make your own 'juices' or by using KY jelly or any other lubricating jelly. This will make it easier for both of you. It was the same for most women, just try to relax and enjoy it!

 

[miss fairy]

first off relax, make sure the time is right for both of you, if he is big and you are new it always adds to the equation. take things slow and just enjoy being with each other and exploring each others body. if u r finding it hard then try some lub ky jelly is good as a basic. don't expect too much either, the more you do it the easier it will get for both of you. the guy i'm seeing now is large and sometimes when we start i clam up there a little when he wants to enter me, only brief, but once he's in etc its a very pleasant experience.

lots of foreplay first, try fingers, starting with none then adding more if its pleasant for you, when u r ready u can slowly ease it in, dont rush things and have fun

 

[EmzyDoodle(:]

try foreplay...get him to use his fingers first and get him to do 1 finger and then add more when its comfy for you, this will help you the next time you go to do things properly.

 

[Nas J]

Take things slow, i know how eager it is to please your partner, when your new and all, but slowing down and letting your body getting familiar with his body makes all the difference.

Slow down
relax
FOREPLAY, a lots of it, if you think you had a enough, you didn't and do it some more.
Since you can't 'handle it' let him try oral sex on you, it will make your vagina relax and take more of him.
Talk and foreplay
and more foreplay
try different positions. Doggie style, it allows more deeper penetration, or put your legs on top of his shoulders. the angle will allow more in. But finally if all fails go on top take things slow.

hoped i helped

 

[Ross P]

of course ur gonna be tight if u havent had it b4, after a few times it il be alot easier and more fun, gud luck

 

[__A_YAHOO_USER__]

Put up with it. He doesn't take your shit for you to be crap in bed. Just keep your fucking mouth shut.

 

[stargazer (lost in space)]

well sweetheart you sound pretty young are you old enough to be doing it?
but to get to the point, the first time is a bit worrying and you may not be relaxed which makes it harder to enter you as you may be tense you may be dry down there.
next time relax use a lot of foreplay and if you are still a bit dry ky jelly does the trick.
pick a time you know you will not be disturbed and take your time
also remember to use a condom it not only protects against pregnancy but std too

 

[TEL BOY]

Dont worry as with a;ll women ONE SIZE TAKES ALL