Question for you guys

[MissJuliiet]

Hey fellas!

I know you guys are always willing to give feedback/advice so I figured i’d ask here.

Does anyone really give a fuck about the massage? Whenever I have new clients I always give them a massage just to get to know them a bit but I honestly hate to waste time on it they don’t really care about it. But I find most guys are too shy to say what they really want despite me trying my best to create a comfortable environment (as difficult as that seems to be these days, lol)

Also a side question. I haven’t been offering extras explicitly because I feel like it comes off as a greedy/money grab if i just flip a guy over and say “hey want a blowjob? *wink*” so what’s the sexiest way a girl has brought up extras (aside from when I just really want to then I just go for it)

Thanks guys

 

[felixami]

I have spent time with you and enjoyed the massage as you are pretty damn good. If it's a brief session then maybe a proportionately brief massage. The skin on skin contact is comforting and sensual. So, yes, I give a damn because it is enjoyable.

As for asking about extras, I think you could say, "What do you like, sexy man." Lol. But seriously, if it is a guy from this site then we already know what MIGHT be available. Some newbie just off the street might be hoping for it but never have the guts to go for it. In this case, you could say, "I really like you. What else would you like to do to me?". And then if he is really dumb, say, "You can use your imagination. I am a wild sexy lady."

By the way, you are AMAZING!

 

[MissJuliiet]

I have spent time with you and enjoyed the massage as you are pretty damn good. If it's a brief session then maybe a proportionately brief massage. The skin on skin contact is comforting and sensual. So, yes, I give a damn because it is enjoyable.

As for asking about extras, I think you could say, "What do you like, sexy man." Lol. But seriously, if it is a guy from this site then we already know what MIGHT be available. Some newbie just off the street might be hoping for it but never have the guts to go for it. In this case, you could say, "I really like you. What else would you like to do to me?". And then if he is really dumb, say, "You can use your imagination. I am a wild sexy lady."

By the way, you are AMAZING!

LOOOOL wow Felix that was probably the best response I could have hoped for!! You’ve definitely given me some great material to choose from! you’re awesome and thanks for seeing me I’m glad you had a good time babe

 

[Leviathan]

Just use your approach on this post on newbies and shy guys. .Use the example of the “shy guy”. If they don’t let you know then at least you asked. Some Frequent flyer hobbyist will ask upfront and some will just go with the flow.

The more natural approach is seduce the client and watch how he responds and see where it leads? I personally prefer this as it’s less transactional feeling like ordering at McDonalds. LoL

There is no silver bullet. PS I hate the sexy babe porn verbiage. Too fake and not authentic. But some guys dig it like a fantasy.

The best courtesans are just natural seducers and reading people by probing and seeing clients reaction, surfacing up the client desire and adapting to each personality and preferences. It’s all in the tone and delivery.

Get ready for the Ursula trolling love you fake news and “how to” prescription. LoL

 

[Can't stop]

Hey fellas!

I know you guys are always willing to give feedback/advice so I figured i’d ask here.

Does anyone really give a fuck about the massage? Whenever I have new clients I always give them a massage just to get to know them a bit but I honestly hate to waste time on it they don’t really care about it. But I find most guys are too shy to say what they really want despite me trying my best to create a comfortable environment (as difficult as that seems to be these days, lol)

Also a side question. I haven’t been offering extras explicitly because I feel like it comes off as a greedy/money grab if i just flip a guy over and say “hey want a blowjob? *wink*” so what’s the sexiest way a girl has brought up extras (aside from when I just really want to then I just go for it)

Thanks guys

I would say for a new client a massage helps ease into it. For me it is a touch weird to just jump right into things. But will say I had never considered just asking to skip the massage but perhaps I may do so from now on.

In terms of shy guys, they don't want to ask then get turned down as that ruins their mood. Now that line of "what else would you like to do to me", that would work very well.

 

[playfulfun]

I haven't had a massage in years, I usually pull the lovely lady to me and kiss her. If she is not into kissing then I kiss her neck and work my way down. Usually we end up on the table in a 69 and I let her know I am up for more.
This works most of the time.

So no I want the fun with no massage.

Newbies ask them is there anything special they are lòoking for?

 

[OleDirtyBastard]

I like the massage if the girl actually knows what she's doing. When they're just putting down oil and wiping their hands around it's a waste of time. Like a lot of guys on this board, I Iove the tease when girls brush against your balls during the lower body massage like it's an accident and then reach under for some more active stoking. It builds anticipation and is a great transition between massage and body slide+. I'm chatty so it's also good time to establish a basic connection to make the session more sensual/intimate. One of the main advantages of going to higher end MP's than an Asian holistic or incall where the girl doesn't speak English.

Also if I bust early it's always nice to get a massage after the sexy time. Some girls just switch off and push you towards the shower but always nice to get the offer of a massage if there is still time on the clock.

 

[TheKWguy]

massage parlour should have some kind of massage part. Otherwise it's no different then an escort and the comparisons will only be made to escorts.

Some girls don't mind that, others will. Obviously there is supposed to be a difference the main one being: $PRICE$

 

[Justplayingxxx]

The massage is the best part of the teasing and part of the fun. As far as extras, I find if you're teasing him enough. He should ask you. Most girls get soooo close to a blowjob then quit and repeat until I beg for extras. Where do you work MissJuliiet?

 

[Buzzkill]

Skip the message, you both know why each is there...some get to know you banter is good at the beginning...

 

[5parkplug]

I don't mind the massage part, as long as it's not too long and the mpa provides a decent massage and a bit of a tease (not just using oil and light hands across the back) . It's a good ice breaker and can help with making somewhat of a connection before the fun.

It's also a nice relaxing feeling after a long day at work.

Though I do Skip the massage sometimes with a regular mpa as we just want to get to the fun stuff.

The first time I went to a mp I let her know it was my first time (i wasnt really sure what to expect and was a bit nervous - and she could tell, but really put me to ease, and possibly that's why she didn't offer upfront but was very sensual ) so i let her lead. During the bs she positioned in 69 and I did asked if I could touch and she ok'd and seemed to enjoy so after a little while I asked if daty was ok and got the go-ahead ( looking back now I missed the subtle hints - bls and kisses on the shaft, as I was having a good time and still a bit nervous). During sf2 she mentioned to me that she and some other girls offer extras if I'd be interested for next time and gave me an idea on what the usual tip would be.... Went back the following week to take her up on the extras .Lol .

 

[King Arthur]

I always say what I want up front but definitely some guys are hoping the girl will initiate so you will probably have more satisfied customers if you do that. A good way to do that I have seen from some girls is when you stroke the dick get your head down there like you want to get closer to it maybe kiss the area around start saying how much you want his cock. If he is going along with that give it a lick or kiss the head. If you just ease up to it slowly like that you will see what he is ok with. If you are worried about sounding greedy then don’t make it sound like you will be disappointed if there are no extras. Be like we can keep having fun this way or do this other thing if you are ok with leaving a tip. Katie at Pure who is one of the most popular girls the second before she went down she licked my ear and whispered this part is extra babe. Some girls dont even mention the tip. I like a good massage in the second part of the session. I like to go in and get off and then I want recovery time so a girl that can give a nice firm massage after I am more likely to repeat with her. Plus I think guys who are there for extras still care about the massage because its like if you are going to lie there on the table it is lame if the girl is really bad at it. But good massage does not make up for a bad blowjob but good blowjob makes up for a bad massage.

 

[karlcox]

I think a massage can be a great icebreaker. That being said, I probably only receive one 15% of the time. Not that I ask to skip it either, just doesn’t end up happening for one reason or another.

 

[Ursus]

You are the best Juliiet.

You actually want to have sexytime but you don't want the guy to feel obligated to empty his wallet in the process.

You would be a great girlfriend, besides the sex-worker occupation part.

 

[Ursus]

You can say the following to your client:

Would you prefer things got alot more sexy? Or do you want to keep the session simple and relaxing?

 

[BBlurker2018]

Look I am there to fuck.

It really is this simple.
Blow me, then fuck me and I'm happy.

 

[Potato]

To answer your question, the best way to find out if a guy wants a massage, ask him and in your question give him two options. Do you prefer a massage or would you like to skip the massage and get to the fun part? So this way they have to answer, Yes I want a massage or I want to skip.
If you ask them, would you like a massage? A new guy thats probably nervous is thinking to himself "oh shit, is that what they do? Am I suppose to say yes? Just go with the flow... Yes sure I would like a massage". So they'll agree to it out of panic rather than getting to what they really want.

 

[FAT DICK]

Most guys including myself don't give a fuck about massage. We know what we are there for. For shy guys or who feel uncomfortable disclosing what they want, just start the session by making-out and kissing. While making-out, just whisper in the ear that you'd like to get throat fucked by that fat dick. While you're sucking on that fat dick and looking into the eyes, wink and then turn around. Beg to be fucked doggy and hairs pulled.

 

[msgme]

If you wanna offer extras like blowjob then just tease the dude. Get your mouth in that area, lick or kiss the shaft. Get really close to putting it in your mouth until he begs you for it. Like open your mouth and slowly get close and if he pushes forward then back off and say its extra. Sometimes I do hate asking because if they says she don't do it then I just feel like getting outta there and it kills the mood. Always initiate the extras by teasing it and not asking for it straight up

 

[northnorth]

I feel like the easiest way to initiate extras is 69 - at least from my experiences, it’s been the best way to get the show started and I can’t help but ask when her pussy is in my face and I’m in there

I think the sensual buildup is key though, and that’s usually accomplished through the body slide at least