How to ask MPA for DATY?

[nathanael b]

I see a lot of stories about guys being able to DATY with MPA's. I've had the temptation to do so myself, but I've always been shy and I don't know how to approach the MPA about it.

What is the proper way to ask a girl if you could DATY? Do most girls go for it?

I'm a frequent traveller at SRM, HFH, and Utopia...anyone know which girls are down for DATY at these locations?

 

[Thug LiFe~State Of Flux]

DATY at a MP??? NEVER!!!!

 

[Holden]

the best time to ask for daty is when the MPA does a reverse cowgirl and the kitty is right in your face!!!!

ask her politely - "do you mind if i give it a lick?"

either she will say no or she will say sure go ahead I don't mind.

it all depends on the MPA - sometimes I've got daty on the first session and sometimes it took about a couple of sessions with others.

 

[dannieboy255]

If you ask, you will not get a yes. When you feel like you want to DATY, Just make your way around it and see if she minds. Some girls do some don't! You have to learn to push the boundaries until she pushes back, then you will know when to stop. Asking will not get u nothing!

 

[sweetsinger]

well if you ask politely - chances are a little bit better that you will!!!!!!

 

[sevenwndrs]

Just like Zanner69 said in the reverse cowgirl I just ask if I can taste you and nine times out of ten the say sure go ahead.

 

[Hamratsn]

I am of the opinion that if you give you must receive is that usually the accepted norm???

 

[lbaker2656]

nope....that only happens very very rarely a....DATY is kind of common not BJs

 

[bubblegirl]

You're supposed to ask??

 

[Rocks]

"do you guys at this Spa provide daty?"
In a nice gentle way as you smile and stair at her at the same time.


she will say yes, no OR mabey for a little extra.

 

[FAHMAN]

It's better to ask. Some girls allow it others don't but there are a lot of great girls that don't do it and it'd be a shame to lose a quality mpa by overstepping the boundaries.

In general I've found that asking rather than pushing seems to work out well for me and on numerous occasions the mpas have commented on how they appreciate being asked. To many pushy guys out there. On the other hand it makes a regular joe like me seem pretty decent with all those other pushy guys.

 

[Darin H]

Of course DATY doesn't happen with MPAs.

If you were to try, the best time is in the 69 position. She's teasing you with her kitty just out of reach. Ask, "why don't you slide down this way a bit?" If she does, go to town, other wise she'll say "I don't do that." It also helps to get her started with some rubbing. Wait 'till she's wet, then ask. When they're turned on it makes it harder to say no!

 

[Nycgirl92]

In which world u are staying, now a days Daty is on a regular menu with Body Slide or some of them call it V.I.P. Session.

 

[MelBo]

I hate to rain on your parade, but that is a sexual assault. You need consent before you do anything. She has to communicate her consent to you beforehand, either expressly, or through unambigious conduct. You aren't allowed to 'test the waters', nor do you get free use of her body until she says 'no'. If you touch/lick and she wasn't consenting, and you didn't take reasonable steps to ascertain her consent beforehand, you've sexually assaulted her.

Forgive the rant, but its guys/attitudes like this that make life tough for our beloved MPA's. Respect the law and the rights of massage parlour workers.

 

[Pyewacket]

i agree with yeet, i'd rather play it safe, funny how some guys pay 100 bucks or w/e mpa's cost and think they get free reign over the playground lol

 

[kingers1988]

Why not just ask sincerely? She'll either say yes, or no. If she gets all uptight or rude about it, then you know she's not the girl you want to see again anyway Personally when I was working in the spas I did *not* allow it, but I was never rude about declining it. Simply because how can you really know if you don't ask.

If only life were always that simple

 

[Slayer]

Do you allow it now?

 

[Pompal 09.]

I'd say it's best to ask politely the first time.

Keep in mind however, that DATY absolutely falls under YMMV. Just coz 3 guys PM'd to say they were offered DATY doesn't mean YOU will be!

Some MPA's only offer it to regulars and others not at all.

 

[Jose Pepito]

Not in all cases. I've had many virtually shove their pussies on my face when in a 69 position. At those times it's diffficult to talk much less ask. Under this scenerio I guess I was assaulted?

There are many cases where it is obvious one way or another.

 

[ESS-93]

This may sound kind of cheezy, but I get kind of scared when I'm offered DATY on a first visit. I guess I like to know the MPA before that level of intimacy.

Also, I'd like to think the MPA is at least being "selective" with her clients. I certainly would never expect to be the only one, but in the top 30% would be nice!