Chat Hobby pet peeves...

[OG_funguy]

I hobby quite a bit and while I mostly have a good time, I do have some pet peeves...

1. MPA tries to sneak in an appointment right before you and the customer is late, pushing your appt time back - this happened to me recently. I made an appointment the day before and even confirmed it before I headed out. Then when I got there, I see a message saying to come 15-20 mins later because her prior customer was late. I could have obliged but didn't bother and just left. The MPAs need to start respecting our time (what if I had somewhere to be right after my original appt time). If the prior customer was 15 mins late, then his appointment should be cut short...they should also allow 10-15 mins buffer in between clients.

2. Bad appointment booking practices - most of the time when I call to book an appointment, they don't even take down my name. Thus, any Joe blow could show up at that time and say it was him (this has happened a few times already). Yeah, I could book with the MPA directly but if the owner doesn't know, she could accept another appointment at the same time (this has also happened to me and in this case, the other customer was turned away unfortunately). I guess the safest approach would be to let both the owner and the MPA know but it shouldn't be necessary if they did it right in the first place.

3. MPAs get too distracted during the massage (e.g. chatty) and forget you're paying for a 'massage' too. Because I tend to visit regulars (as opposed to always trying someone new), we end up getting fairly comfortable with each other. This leads to a lot of chatting during the session which leads to them running to their phone to show me something or for Google Translator etc. Not a huge deal but it happens quite a lot these days (somewhat related, I notice the massage quality usually slips a bit over time as well)...sometimes, it's nice to visit someone new where you can just close your eyes and enjoy the massage.

4. MPAs working during their period - not sure about the premier and holistic places but this happens quite a bit a semi-legits (in fact, it happened to me 'twice' last week). At semi-legits, many customers are just there for the massage and basic HE so many MPAs figure it's fine to work during their period. Unfortunately, the higher mileage customers get the short end of the stick.

5. Not properly cleaning themselves in between clients - at most semi-legits, the MPAs rarely jump in the shower afterwards for a proper cleaning...usually it's because they are worried that the owner or other MPAs will hear them (and they are embarrassed). A lot of times they'll just quickly rinse themselves with some water at the sink (no soap). Of course there are exceptions (for example, I usually see the MPAs at SL showering after our session) but proper cleaning protocol should be happening ALL the time, especially now during Covid.


Have you guys experienced the above too? What are some other pet peeves you guys have?

 

[Deleted member 79939]

They want to do six hands ?????

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I hobby quite a bit and while I mostly have a good time, I do have some pet peeves...

1. MPA tries to sneak in an appointment right before you and the customer is late, pushing your appt time back - this happened to me recently. I made an appointment the day before and even confirmed it before I headed out. Then when I got there, I see a message saying to come 15-20 mins later because her prior customer was late. I could have obliged but didn't bother and just left. The MPAs need to start respecting our time (what if I had somewhere to be right after my original appt time). If the prior customer was 15 mins late, then his appointment should be cut short...they should also allow 10-15 mins buffer in between clients.

2. Bad appointment booking practices - most of the time when I call to book an appointment, they don't even take down my name. Thus, any Joe blow could show up at that time and say it was him (this has happened a few times already). Yeah, I could book with the MPA directly but if the owner doesn't know, she could accept another appointment at the same time (this has also happened to me and in this case, the other customer was turned away unfortunately). I guess the safest approach would be to let both the owner and the MPA know but it shouldn't be necessary if they did it right in the first place.

3. MPAs get too distracted during the massage (e.g. chatty) and forget you're paying for a 'massage' too. Because I tend to visit regulars (as opposed to always trying someone new), we end up getting fairly comfortable with each other. This leads to a lot of chatting during the session which leads to them running to their phone to show me something or for Google Translator etc. Not a huge deal but it happens quite a lot these days (somewhat related, I notice the massage quality usually slips a bit over time as well)...sometimes, it's nice to visit someone new where you can just close your eyes and enjoy the massage.

4. MPAs working during their period - not sure about the premier and holistic places but this happens quite a bit a semi-legits (in fact, it happened to me 'twice' last week). At semi-legits, many customers are just there for the massage and basic HE so many MPAs figure it's fine to work during their period. Unfortunately, the higher mileage customers get the short end of the stick.

5. Not properly cleaning themselves in between clients - at most semi-legits, the MPAs rarely jump in the shower afterwards for a proper cleaning...usually it's because they are worried that the owner or other MPAs will hear them (and they are embarrassed). A lot of times they'll just quickly rinse themselves with some water at the sink (no soap). Of course there are exceptions (for example, I usually see the MPAs at SL showering after our session) but proper cleaning protocol should be happening ALL the time, especially now during Covid.


Have you guys experienced the above too? What are some other pet peeves you guys have?

They want to Do 4 hands ?

 

[krayjee]

1... I totally agree with you on this. They should penalize the guy who is late. Not you.

2... Stealing appointments happen quite often at busy spas. That's why JR receptionist always asks who they book and last 4 digits of phone number to confirm.
Booking through your own girl is ok but if the girl was busy and couldn't inform the front desk or the boss in time, they always go with the one who book through the reception which is the proper way.

3... you are the one in charge in this matter. You should be in control.

4....Lots of girls work during their periods whether semi legit or holistic spas bcuz some guys are there just for a HE and not everyone goes there for FS or Daty.

5.... Most semi legit girls do not take shower and no need for that unless they are doing body slides with you and have shower in the room. Only very few, less than 3% of the girls might do those extras with their fav regulars, not with every customer. The girls do not want other girls suspect they are doing too much extras
SL is a different story, it is not a semi legit spa. It is semi holistic spa and the boss there knows most girls do body slides. So, shower is a must and the boss encourage them to take shower after slides.

 

[sy barite]

Fake dirty talk. I guess many guys must like it, but I can't stand when a girl starts with the fake moans or the "cum for me baby" lingo. Total turn off.

 

[69isbest]

My all time favorite(or biggest piss off) you book a woman the first time based on reviews, you show up and the girl that answers door says yes I am her...then you find out later Not Her...

 

[AthleticAF]

1... I totally agree with you on this. They should penalize the guy who is late. Not you.

2... Stealing appointments happen quite often at busy spas. That's why JR receptionist always asks who they book and last 4 digits of phone number to confirm.
Booking through your own girl is ok but if the girl was busy and couldn't inform the front desk or the boss in time, they always go with the one who book through the reception which is the proper way.

3... you are the one in charge in this matter. You should be in control.

4....Lots of girls work during their periods whether semi legit or holistic spas bcuz some guys are there just for a HE and not everyone goes there for FS or Daty.

5.... Most semi legit girls do not take shower and no need for that unless they are doing body slides with you and have shower in the room. The girls do not want other girls suspect they are doing too much extras.
SL is a different case, it is not a semi legit spa. It is semi holistic spa and the boss there knows most girls do body slides. So, shower is a must and the boss encourage them to take shower after slides.

#5 interesting, never would have crossed my mind, but that's still dirty as fuck

 

[BmH6769]

All of the above...

This is why I only stick with reg fav cos I know their practices semi or holi

Always book with the girls and told ‘em to mark the time in the log book HERSELF

When semi girl got distracted, I would remind her “we don’t have much time left...”.

I know they coup up in the spa all day and when reg shows up they tend to drift off a bit sometimes, so just talk to em b4, like you want certain time left in your session to have fun or so forth.

 

[Asslvr7777]

my main pet peeve is when you find an mpa that you are very interested in trying, your schedule lines up........then her profile disappears

minor pet peeves include the following:

"do you feel better now?" - fukn hate that

 

[Axxman]

I sometimes get on the table lying on my back, and say ”take your time”...and then they immediately dump a gallon of oil on captain happy and start jack hammering....when you tell them to slow down, they do for 15 seconds and then go back to the jack hammer....uggg!

 

[OG_funguy]

my pet peeve would be when the girl needs to leave the room right in the middle of a session to answer the door! I can handle it with faves cuz I know things will be made up for me, but not with girls I'm seeing for the first time.. and if that fave does leave the room, better have some kisses for me when she comes back!!
ha ha

Yeah, that's a good one...plus when they keep answering the phone too.

Fortunately at most of the places I go to, the owner/receptionist answers the phone. And now during the lockdown, there's really no walk-ins as everything is mostly done via private appointments.

 

[OG_funguy]

I haven't really encountered issues with MPAs having bad breath but I think all MPAs should do a mouthwash rinse in between clients too...

 

[OG_funguy]

1... I totally agree with you on this. They should penalize the guy who is late. Not you.

2... Stealing appointments happen quite often at busy spas. That's why JR receptionist always asks who they book and last 4 digits of phone number to confirm.
Booking through your own girl is ok but if the girl was busy and couldn't inform the front desk or the boss in time, they always go with the one who book through the reception which is the proper way.

3... you are the one in charge in this matter. You should be in control.

4....Lots of girls work during their periods whether semi legit or holistic spas bcuz some guys are there just for a HE and not everyone goes there for FS or Daty.

5.... Most semi legit girls do not take shower and no need for that unless they are doing body slides with you and have shower in the room. Only very few, less than 3% of the girls might do those extras with their fav regulars, not with every customer. The girls do not want other girls suspect they are doing too much extras
SL is a different story, it is not a semi legit spa. It is semi holistic spa and the boss there knows most girls do body slides. So, shower is a must and the boss encourage them to take shower after slides.

That's smart of JR to do it that way...don't know why all spas don't do something like that. I agree that the front desk booking should take priority over booking directly with the MPA.

 

[hangul99]

I hobby quite a bit and while I mostly have a good time, I do have some pet peeves...

1. MPA tries to sneak in an appointment right before you and the customer is late, pushing your appt time back - this happened to me recently. I made an appointment the day before and even confirmed it before I headed out. Then when I got there, I see a message saying to come 15-20 mins later because her prior customer was late. I could have obliged but didn't bother and just left. The MPAs need to start respecting our time (what if I had somewhere to be right after my original appt time). If the prior customer was 15 mins late, then his appointment should be cut short...they should also allow 10-15 mins buffer in between clients.

2. Bad appointment booking practices - most of the time when I call to book an appointment, they don't even take down my name. Thus, any Joe blow could show up at that time and say it was him (this has happened a few times already). Yeah, I could book with the MPA directly but if the owner doesn't know, she could accept another appointment at the same time (this has also happened to me and in this case, the other customer was turned away unfortunately). I guess the safest approach would be to let both the owner and the MPA know but it shouldn't be necessary if they did it right in the first place.

3. MPAs get too distracted during the massage (e.g. chatty) and forget you're paying for a 'massage' too. Because I tend to visit regulars (as opposed to always trying someone new), we end up getting fairly comfortable with each other. This leads to a lot of chatting during the session which leads to them running to their phone to show me something or for Google Translator etc. Not a huge deal but it happens quite a lot these days (somewhat related, I notice the massage quality usually slips a bit over time as well)...sometimes, it's nice to visit someone new where you can just close your eyes and enjoy the massage.

4. MPAs working during their period - not sure about the premier and holistic places but this happens quite a bit a semi-legits (in fact, it happened to me 'twice' last week). At semi-legits, many customers are just there for the massage and basic HE so many MPAs figure it's fine to work during their period. Unfortunately, the higher mileage customers get the short end of the stick.

5. Not properly cleaning themselves in between clients - at most semi-legits, the MPAs rarely jump in the shower afterwards for a proper cleaning...usually it's because they are worried that the owner or other MPAs will hear them (and they are embarrassed). A lot of times they'll just quickly rinse themselves with some water at the sink (no soap). Of course there are exceptions (for example, I usually see the MPAs at SL showering after our session) but proper cleaning protocol should be happening ALL the time, especially now during Covid.


Have you guys experienced the above too? What are some other pet peeves you guys have?

I've experienced all of yours. I can add the boss asking your MPA to come out and meet a customer because he wants to meet the girls. Come on wtf! I haven't encountered that in awhile but it has happened in the past.

 

[OG_funguy]

I've experienced all of yours. I can add the boss asking your MPA to come out and meet a customer because he wants to meet the girls. Come on wtf! I haven't encountered that in awhile but it has happened in the past.

Thankfully, this doesn't happen too often at the semi places...I think it only happened to me once when I was with a fave. When she came back and told me what happened, we both had a good laugh...

 

[Mpaanon]

1... I totally agree with you on this. They should penalize the guy who is late. Not you.

2... Stealing appointments happen quite often at busy spas. That's why JR receptionist always asks who they book and last 4 digits of phone number to confirm.
Booking through your own girl is ok but if the girl was busy and couldn't inform the front desk or the boss in time, they always go with the one who book through the reception which is the proper way.

3... you are the one in charge in this matter. You should be in control.

4....Lots of girls work during their periods whether semi legit or holistic spas bcuz some guys are there just for a HE and not everyone goes there for FS or Daty.

5.... Most semi legit girls do not take shower and no need for that unless they are doing body slides with you and have shower in the room. Only very few, less than 3% of the girls might do those extras with their fav regulars, not with every customer. The girls do not want other girls suspect they are doing too much extras
SL is a different story, it is not a semi legit spa. It is semi holistic spa and the boss there knows most girls do body slides. So, shower is a must and the boss encourage them to take shower after slides.

To anwser number 4 girls are forced to work on their periods or have to pay a fine usually of $100 a day for not coming in while on their period. Most girls would much rather not come in and just stay home but paying a fee of $100+ the number of shift you work that week every month makes it so you have no choice but to come in .

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I've experienced all of yours. I can add the boss asking your MPA to come out and meet a customer because he wants to meet the girls. Come on wtf! I haven't encountered that in awhile but it has happened in the past.

They ask u to take shower in another room .
After u took off all your cloth .

 

[krayjee]

To anwser number 4 girls are forced to work on their periods or have to pay a fine usually of $100 a day for not coming in while on their period. Most girls would much rather not come in and just stay home but paying a fee of $100+ the number of shift you work that week every month makes it so you have no choice but to come in .

You are working at the wrong kind of spas. I have never seen any Asian spa bosses forcing anyone to work on their period.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

You are working at the wrong kind of spas. I have never seen any Asian spa bosses forcing anyone to work on their period.

It happens
They will show u their pads
And the will tell u to be careful

 

[Hornet]

My all time favorite(or biggest piss off) you book a woman the first time based on reviews, you show up and the girl that answers door says yes I am her...then you find out later Not Her...

You mean something like this?