Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

[Adelle]

Never Divulge your true Identity, home location or phone # to a wHOre,,, to do so opens a possible Child Support claim and defeats the purpose of having stranger sex, and gives up your privacy...
This is a Rookie mistake in My opinion...

 

[Ella_Fitzzy]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

You're thinking about the founder of DHL, Larry Hillblom. He went across Micronesia, Vietnam, Philippines, and other parts of Asia to spread his seeds widely. After his disappearance from a plane crash, there was a huge lawsuit for his estate.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Larry_Hillblom

 

[Yep]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Interesting case study: didn't the founder of FedEx get a Phillipina BG pregnant and she had the child? IIRC.

 

[Wai]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

I don't feel like a monger should be expected to or pay for a baby on the way. I wouldn't do it. If a chica told me she was going to have my baby I should be able to counter with abortion. If she's making every decision she should pay for our baby.

It just isn't part of the deal and I think is wrong if she goes after the monger for financial help. P4P should be exactly what it is. There is no point in practicing this hobby if we have to pay for extras. Chicas often give us bad service and at times rush us so they don't have to be with us anymore so it sounds to me like they shouldn't complain when I refuse to pay for a baby I don't want.

For those mongers who are willing to pay for a baby on the way I think they should retire from the hobby. I'm serious. It sounds to me like you guys want to have a baby so you mine as well impregnate a "good woman." Is not that it's the right thing to do is that you want to have a baby and want to pay for extras.

 

[Jonny Mick]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

First, I commend you on your ethical viewpoint about child's rights. However, we are on a mongering forum, so I assume most people on this board are more concerned about a monger's rights.

But, about child's rights, the unborn child does not have any rights in the first trimester.

Amigomio, you are probably right about the difficulty of an international paternity case, especially making more difficult because of her lack of English and who to contact. But, international child support cases do exist out there, and behooves you to be careful, both in terms of the information you give out about yourself and using condom protection. I have heard of a case where condom broke. The puta got pregnant, but she didn't seem interested in financially pursuing this guy. Maybe the mentality of Mexican women are different than American women. American women feel very entitled, and they will financially reverse rape you to get their due.

 

[zenjanthropus]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Darshman, if a club girl/ho/ street walker girl gets pregnant... this is Mexico, who cares about the lower castes.

She'll never be able to aford a lawyer good enough to make it an international paternity case.
I know DNA is a factor that will ID you, but it will be hard for her to remember who was it she made it with BB to get inpregnated.

Back to #1: Pay no attention to the girls if they get pregnant.
You know, it's like the old Tex Avery cartoon, the one with Droopy and the wolf posing as a land baron sayin "it's the law of the West".

Well, that's what goes on in the club scene...

 

[el tom]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Regardless of the irresponsibility of the parents......What about the child's rights?

 

[Julia S]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

I wanted to tie this with another post about exchange phone numbers. If you happened to get a chica pregnant and want to prevent a child support case against you, then it makes sense to avoid giving the chicas your real name, avoid exchanging your real phone #, and avoid exchanging your real regular email address.

I'm a bit divided on the responsibility aspect. I do see some valid points on not being responsible because you paid her as a pro to go away. Also, what about a man's right to decide on abortion?

Ideally, you would have wrapped it up with a condom so this would be a non-issue, not to mention the potential STDs.

 

[drasago]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Another wrong, totally wrong assessment, starting with Qncyk inability to understand that ho's will never tell you the truth, they will only butter the bread in a way that you feel that you are the only one and no one else is.

Quick rule of thumb Qncyk: Never believe what a ho tells you.

 

[emilly]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

I cannot comment on the validity of the oral sex statistics you have presented. However, I entirely agree with you on the "pounding" concept. Most Mexican patrons of the casa de citas are "cold." I have visited the casa de citas in excess of 250 times(I am not in any way proud of this) and have spoken with the majority of these girls in depth. Most of them tell me that their clients are cold and distant. I treat these girls like princesses when I session with them and receive GFE(when a girl either orgasms in your mouth or on your cock) from roughly 70 percent of these girls. I don't believe that the Mexican patron is looking for this type of service. That is why the privados(I don't believe GFE is possible here) in the strip clubs are so popular in Mexico. For me, if a new prospect will not DFK me, I won't even bother finishing with her and will simply get dressed and leave. Two weeks ago I had to tell a new girl that would not DFK me,

"Yo no quiero desperdiciar mi leche contigo. Yo quiero guardarlo por otra mujer."

 

[prettyparadoxal 1]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Burt, with all due respect... you are a little wrong in your assessment.

 

[G Love]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

More cultural comments:

Many, perhaps most, Mexicans think American men have STDs. Which is part of the reason both putas and civilian chicas more likely to use condoms with American men than they are with locals. (Note the difference between saying "more likely" than saying something like "always.")

There is also some truth in their thought process. For example, the rate of HIV/AIDS in Mexico is less than half of what it is in the U.S.

Mexican men are less likely to engage in oral sex (giving and receiving) than are American men. (Locals typically want a puta to "pound" as "pounding" women is often seen as being macho. Putas typically don't provide locals with a GFE.) Mexicans, thanks in part to the Catholic Church, are more likely than Americans to view oral sex as "dirty" and/or perverted. This view of Americans as engaging in sexual activities that are "dirty" also contributes to the idea that American men are full of STDs.

I should add the cultural taboo against oral sex is dying. The majority--but not all--of the civilian chicas I've dated engage in oral sex. However, I think Mexicans who engage in oral sex are more likely to view it as being "naughty" than do their American counterparts.

 

[swingswingx3]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Thanks burt2020 for clarifying my curiosity.

Your a Gentleman and a Scholar

 

[carrieo2guns]

Let’s take these subject by subject:


The child does not automatically receive citizenship, nor would the child (probably) be able to obtain citizenship if the father were an alien legally residing in the U.S. The child (or the child’s legal guardian acting for the child) must apply for citizenship. Yes, there’s a lot of paperwork involved.

The mother must obtain a visa. Giving birth to a baby that obtains US citizenship does not mean she automatically gets a visa. She has to get a visa just like any other Mexican who wants to visit the US.

The father, of course, can assist her in obtaining either a fiancee visa (which requires the couple to marry within 90 days of entering the US) or a spousal visa. Both take time (about 2 years) and require a lot of paperwork as well as the consent of the husband/father.

The child can visit Daddy if and when the child obtains US citizenship and the accompanying required documents (such as a passport) that a US citizen needs to show to enter the US. If the child does not have U.S. citizenship the child can still visit Daddy if the child obtains a visa to enter the U.S.—something many/most kids born to a “puta” won’t be able to get.


It happens, but I wouldn’t go so far as to say chicas routinely get pregnant by mongers.

How many putas that get pregnant by a monger do you think tell their friends and family, “I got pregnant while working as a prostitute?” Putas typically hide the fact they’re prostitutes. Putas who get pregnant by a monger typically say the father disappeared after learning about the pregnancy. (This is exactly what a chica I know who used to work at Valentinas did—or so says her best friend who is also a puta/former puta.)

Mexican families (expect perhaps those of the "upper crust") are very accepting of children born out of wedlock. They tend to follow their own version of "don't ask, don't tell" even when there is reason to suspect the mother is a puta. What they do is accept at face value whatever the mother says about the child's father--even if the child is very "blanco."


Probably not. If more Mexican women used birth control Mexico wouldn't be flooded with kids born to single moms.

It’s shocking how many chicas who are very active sexually are not on the pill. (Typically those who use protection get a monthly shot instead of taking a daily pill.) Remember, Mexico is a Catholic country and the Catholic Church is very opposed to birth control. Having a child out of wedlock is very common and does not carry the stigma of past eras.

If you consider how many women in Mexico have children outside of wedlock instead of getting an abortion then you’ve got your answer to what most think about abortion.

Mexico is a Catholic country and the Catholic Church is very opposed to abortion. Abortions are illegal in Mexico; there are women who get abortions, but, as I stated above, most unmarried women “in a family way” choose to keep the child—not abort it. Again, having a child out of wedlock is very common and does not carry the stigma of past eras.

 

[Charmaine]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Let me re-Hijack my original thread if I may.

Can anyone answer the remainder of these Q's?
*especially the birth-control subject
(Thanx to those who replied before)

 

[whoever this is]

Actually, this is an interesting point (maybe even warrants a new thread).

A few years back, I messed around with a semi-pro Amiga in El Salvador. By semi-pro, I mean she never asked for money but clearly enjoyed being spoiled (shopping, nice restaurants, etc). Anyways, after I returned home I sent her some spending money a few times. Word got around in the small town where she's from that I was some rich fuck sending her money.

Pretty soon, I was receiving text messages from her so-called best friend telling me my Amiga was seeing another foreign guy. Of course the best friend wanted to hook up with me.

Why would I be jealous by some chick that I spent two days with and who lives in another country? I hope she really did find someone else to make her happy.

The moral of the story. If you really want to find out what your Amiga (or baby mama) is doing, I’m sure that she'll have a friend that will gladly stab her in the back with the hopes of getting a piece of the pie.

And no, I’m not a rich fuck and yes I was a dumb ass for sending money in the first place. Live and learn!

 

[Yadda Me HappyToday]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

We are not breaking any new ground here. We have already discussed the possible repercussions of getting a chica pregnant. If a monger wants to disregard the possible consequences, so be it. Good luck!

 

[solomon]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

What "ground rules" are you talking about? The fact that she is not allowed to spend the child support on her worthless boyfriend or a drug addiction as opposed to your child? You'll be thousands of miles away. Exactly how are you going to do to enforce these rules? And when does the ethical responsibility of child bearing turn into a fiduciary one? If a hook_r in a wh_re house knows that you are rich and decides to cut your condom so it intentionally breaks sometime during intercourse, you are going to lay down and pay(for 18 years) because it's the right thing to do? Not me. I already paid at the door.

It sounds like you are a playing the game and don't know the rules.

And your probably right. Most "dudes" are probably thinking exactly what I am saying.

We pay women for sex to leave, not to stay(18 years).

 

[mariettascheer]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

Yep, you're an asshole, but at least you're honest. Most dudes are thinking what you are saying.

If I had a baby mama in Mexico (or any country I mongered in), I would help support the kid, but I would lay down the ground rules to the mama and also make damn sure that the kid is mine.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Getting a Chica "Pregnant"

That's why we both head to the shower afterward.

Is your bank fertile?