Ever fall in love with a prostitute?

[aznclamgrl91]

I think that their are alot of guys that would be shocked at how much sin condom sex is going on in the hotel next to Adelitas. I know guys that never use condoms, and not just a couple of guys either.

 

[Mandy]

Dude you wasted some of your time and money on this. I'm glad you came out OK and I hope you didn;t lose too much.

Next time you do a whore down there, hit that puta it like it owes you money!

And thanks for noticing my big balls! Just fucking look at them!

 

[Neicy]

Fireballs, I agree on the part of the mongers trying to protect their novia with the white knight syndrome. But its a losing battle, which the monger will not admit to himself.
Well, what if they told all their special clients that its him who is special. What if they are playing games/tricks with more than one novio at a time, how do we know ? most of these girls (there might be exceptions) main aim is to make money, I think it comes naturally to them, maybe some are not so ruthless and conniving as others, and maybe "loyal" to their true boyfriend.

I like your part of the sin condom "test". But even if she were your true GF, she may not have a sin condom thing due to other reasons, including avoiding pregnancy. But thats a pretty good indicator about her relationwith you, if she does that, though there is no guarantee again.
Sin condom is taboo with most pro girls and especially the high end girls.

 

[Ambi]

I was reminded by one of your fellow mongers that has TJ as his main destiny, posts here and at other forums and has visited Monterrey and knows me in persona that I should not ram myself into brick walls.

I will not post again on the subject but I'll be around posting when needed.

Before I depart, a big PS:

Fireballs, I think you never answered my question, you dodge it and tried to place it in my lap in another manifestation.
Here it goes again (third time)... I hope to read your answer, but its ok if you don't, I can interpret silence.
(Come on FB, another monger already answered honestly!!!)

I said: "If you don't like our corrupt and decadent way of our country, why not stay on the USA side?"
Cause you LOVE our corrput and decadent prostitution system (read as caste) and you love it cause you are addicted to it. You will sort police hassel, corruption, pay offs to get your high at La Zona.
Your not alone, am addicted too and both you and me, we can't drop the habit.

Notice am open an honest on the subject (something you haven't bee at all).

Fireballs says: "There is nothing special about you Amigomio unless I want to know a great place in Monterey to pick up a certain class of sex worker."
Freudian slip sir.
You are implying that you are above advice here.
I've been reading between lines in you posts.
You don't like to be contradicted, you don't like to be adressed at, specially by guys like me.
And we are talking racist here?
No, prejudiced.
You don't like sincerty, you like duality, you openly said you don't read PMs... that means you see some us (maybe just me) with contemp.
The worst part and I notice you clearly steer around when I mention that we both ARE THE SAME!
We adore the sex vice, but you don't like to feel that we are both equal... you don't like to be on that level of honesty with the guys here on the TJ thread.
That is why you are trying to push me back to the Monterrey Thread.

But it's OK... live your life and be happy with your "putas".
I'll be around...

 

[The boy]

Hey Ochobby, you sure have big balls I am not looking for any sympathy, if you noticed my posts they border on the humoros, more as lessons learned for others. Even I thought these things (like cancer) happen to others and not the self. But complicated and tough that life is, one is sometimes in a weak position or a compromised situation and things happen. Persnally I was never convinced about it......

 

[chivas4life]

Sampson, you bring up a good point, a monger in love will go with the illusion or delusion that his favorita is his favorita and no body else. One forgets that its their business and she has to do what it takes to keep the clients coming or holding existing ones. Of course if she is too much in demand then maybe she has the luxury of choosing, but thats rare. When in love no logic applies

 

[Crissy]

You are totally correct sir... and honest.
I applaud your openess and Iam not kidding.
Seems you are the only one that has the guts to accept that you are in TJ for that that we love and the rest is BS

 

[Heaven Cant Wait]

I don't know if that's an option for most love sick mongers, and that's telling the chica who is asking you for a little money, to just work a little harder selling your pussy?

One of the first requirements mongers make of their puta girlfriend, is that she has to stop working. The mongers say they can forgive her past, but not her future, and she must stop working. You have to remember, we are dealing with the 'white knight syndrome' here, we want to rescue her from the life of prostitution, and save here. Telling her to go sell her pussy, is the same as telling her, we just don't care about her. Now some guys can do that and maybe don't have a jealous bone in their body, but not many, or maybe they are just taking advaneforum.xxxe of her, or their situation is that bad, they have no other choice then allowing the wife or girlfriend to sell her body? ( it's never that bad in in US so we can judge)

Now some guys like me who aren't ready to make that commitment but at the same time don't like their 'favorite' working in bars. What usually happens is your 'favorite' tells you it's only business with them, her job, and it's the real thing with you, real LOVE. She will usually demonstrate this to you by giving you something she doesn't give to anybody else. And that's sex without a condom, sin-condom sexo. I understand padrotes and pimps do the same thing, their girls give it to them only sin-condom, or only they get anal sex from their hoes, and regular customers can't get that type of service.

The guy I'm using as an example I believe his early writings he said that HOT AB chica gave him sin-condom sex, as their relationship grew. And as most of you already know, it's very hard getting sin-condom sex at Adelitas unless you cultivate that relationship.

So one of the first rules of Tijuana LOVE is your so-called girlfriend will offer you sex without a condom to show you her relationship with you is different. In fact that's one of the lines I use with a few BGs tell they me they really like me, I say, " oh yeah, show me.[ yes there are a few sluts that will fuck anyone without a condom, but really it's rare, and not so easy to get, despite what you hear on some of these boards.}

 

[Richard R]

These scams you guys have fallen into could have been pulled off by any whore and where in the world. Don't blame Mexico, blame a whore who knows why she is there... to get your money either by nook or by crook.

When you guys go to TJ, empty your pipe, pay the money, then leave. There cannot be love between such diverse socio-economic classes. That's why rich people marry rich people, and poor people should marry poor people, ugly people should marry ugly people, short tiny with only one arm and three legs marry other short tiny people with one arm and three legs.

I've personally known a (well I wouldn't call him a monger) young man who was visiting TJ for a specail lady who (it was different with her) she only worked at a strip club. The long and the short of it was he was out several G's and to make things worse, he never had sex with her because (she was different than the other girls). Que lastima!

Mongers wake up! Your relationship with these women is a business transaction... never anything more... never forget that.

 

[kingsley]

It never ceases to amaze me when a chica needs $200 or $300....I would always say, "sell your pussy" what a frickin' novel idea, tell a prostitute to sell her pussy to earn the money she needs.

I mean let's face it, if she is your favorita, do you think you are the only client she has?

 

[~Looking Forward~]

Let me just add my 2 cents ... american's come to TJ because your corrupt and decadent prostitution system is CHEAP... if the women charged the same as in america ... TJ would not be as popular .. its all about the economics .. buddy

 

[Lost and Found]

Hey Fireballs, Thanks for sharing. Here I am drunk on a few tequila more than a few miles away from the hotspot, doing taxes ! One thing rang a bell, this time my "novia" asked me for 300$ for some reason! Now I had the "courage" to say "no", perhaps it was the Tequila or perhaps it was the shock from having to owe money to IRS. Nothing brings you to ground zero like having to pay taxes you owe instead of a refund . Well coming back to the post.
Couple of things blare out in my mind from this or other posts, "YOU CANNOT TURN A WHORE INTO A HOUSEWIVE, BUT YOU CAN SURE TURN A HOUSEWIFE INTO A WHORE" !!!!

 

[fgfdgfdgfdg]

I don't know that much about falling in LOVE with a 'provider' although I have come close many times. One such relationship ended with me, when she told me she needed $300 dollars to furnish her apartment. I did give her most of the money, and fucked her for free' it's that's what free sex is, giving her money for other things, but that was a sign to end it for me.

Later this same girl met up with some dude that got her pregnant or who knows, if could have even being my kid, as I doubt some of these girls know who the father is? She got a visa too, and went to live with this guy somewhere in San Diego, with a nice house and everything I heard. It just broke my heart when I found out she was working again in the bar. I had to go see for myself, and sure enough she was there, pulling her same MO when she doesn't like the dude. The guy would buy her a drink, and she would go excuse herself for 1/2 an hour. She claimed she was working again in TJ, but wasn't going upstairs, and things just didn't work out for her in the states. I haven't seen you since, nor do I want to, it's just so sad.

But I'm married, so the most this relationship could be is her being my mistress. I had a few minor other flings staying over at girls apartments for a few days, as I was suppose to be out of town on business.

It works both ways, some people say 'once a puta, always a puta." But I say, once a monger, always a monger. I was a monger for 6 years before I met my wife. I love my wife dearly, but their is no fucking way I'm just going to be satisfied with just one women, no matter how HOT she is. And my wife is no longer hot, but it's ok, I'd never leave her for some hot puta, no matter how good the sex is, because sex is only one important aspect of a long term loving relationship.

 

[Emma Jean]

Fireballs, thanks for your kind words, I am still reeling from the impact and walking away from the woods. A "special Investigative Reporter" (SIR) brought me in part to my senses Some day I will write my experience and request the SIR to contribute, and Thanks to another Counselling gentleman on the board who provided support and insights on how the Chicas operate.
I agree, there are a few good women even in the zona, but not for any serious relationship as long as we keep that in mind.
Well, you brought up a good point about this TEXT MESSAGING. You sure are an expert in stirring up conversation pointer and then some controversies too
Coming to think about it there was a pattern to the money requests. It would usually be on Monday afternoons and definitely on month ends. Thats because Monday was her off day and month end translates to Bohemian De La Renta ! And it would be text messages. Damn, I simply went and got a GSM compatible phone to receive GSM text messages from Mexico and rest of the world.
Next time I will write more about Text Messages advaneforum.xxxes and disadvaneforum.xxxe. The main ADVANeforum.xxxE is YOU CAN TRANSLATE THE SPANISH to ENGLISH and Vice versa. Many tools including Google Browser has translation tools, and I used it to communicate (and get myself more fucked in the bargain !) But seriosuly it breaks down the communication barrier to some extent. I would translate her message in spanish, and then I would write my response and translate back to Spanish and reply. To short cut, I would fwd the text messages to and fro from the Telephone to email system.

 

[mary c]

Amigomio wrote:

Hey Amigomio quit putting words in my mouth. I never said I didn't like how Mexico moves forward as a country. I haven't even said it's corrupt or decadent. although I could make the case it is, but so are other countries, including the US.

The only thing I disagree with is your interpretation of prostitution behavior in Tijuana. You claim you don't act superior like a few other people from Monterey, with more Spanish looking features than Indian features. While I don't know, but you certainly come across on this site as a superior monger, who knows the mechanics and dynamics of the business, because you speak the Language and are Mexican with Spanish blood, while discounting everybody else on this site as unknowing Gringo tourist from the US who visit TJ as a sex tourist once in awhile. When in reality many mongers here are Mexican American, who even have lived in Mexico some point in their life, and do speak Spanish, and we have many US citizens who vist Tijuana almost everyday, and also understand the mechanics and how things work. We even have ex pimps, who really understand the mechianics and dynamics of prostitution from the service side.

There is nothing special about you Amigomio unless I want to know a great place in Monterey to pick up a certain class of sex worker.

 

[eee]

Let me explain my question, seems you didn't get it:

I said: "If you don't like our corrupt and decadent way of our country, why not stay on the USA side?"

I didn't say Mexico in the individual sense. I know that you "like" Mexico as you like the USA, but you don't like the way Mexico moves foward as a country.
Same as me, Iam not racist, but Iam part of a classist and racist system.
Now... get it?
Can you answer?
But no need, I already answered for you in my post... it has to do you loving our corrput and decadent prostitution system (read as caste).

We'll leave it as that, FB.

 

[Lion Ate Lamb]

Bohemian I'm sorry to hear about your lost. It's a shame many women in Tijuana are like that, but they are not all like that. The problem is finding the right one, and sometimes once you fine the right one......she leaves and you have to start all over, but I'm sure you had fun when you were with her, it's just that damn text messages those chicas are starting to use to get money during their down time.

 

[Bob G]

Amigomio wrote:

Since when did I say I didn't like Mexico? What I said I didn't like was you providing cannon fodder to the Mexican haters you get off of posts like yours claiming that racism and caste systems are a way of life, when the US is just as racist, and corrupt in many ways.

If you want me to defend the US Puritanical sexual rules and laws, you come to the wrong person.

 

[Kristopher A]

Yes you can fall in love with them. Trust me, I know.

I have always enjoyed getting to know my provider; even when it wasn't psudo love - sometimes in TJ just to show off my poco espanol.

If you can adford the cash to play the game of sponsering a lady - then great. Marrage is different. But the answer to the question is yes. You can fall in love and have feelings for them.

 

[zola237]

Fireballs,
I added a little PS to my post just before reading this post.... has to do that at least am honest and open. A thing that I guess you don't like.
I guess I didn't answer KT question, you are right (think I wasn't going to do it?).
No, I don't think myself above anyone, but am just a grain of sand that does not influence my society at all and my society has many defects engrained on the colective DNA.
I may not make anyone bow at my feet (that is a horrible analogy FB... you are pushing the envelope to much) but being part of a society that expects that from lower status people, it does makes me look as if Iam per defacto soliciting that.
I make it clear here that I DO NOT DO THAT.
You are trying to make it look as such, when Iam just trying to pass along how our society works.

PS: by the way, now answer my question. If you don't like our corrupt and decadent way of our country, why not stay on the USA side?
PPS: I'll answer for you... cause you love the decadent and corrupt part of the vice offered at TJ and you can't drop it.
PPPS: I love it too... don't worry, that's why I like reading your posts.