yourstruly1984
Active Member
Partially agree with you. These dance bars are a sinkhole of which there is no coming back. The problem is the gap that exists in the self-esteem of the average monger is only growing larger. So, they will keep inflating prices as a self-esteem tax. Remember, value here is 'extrinsic' and based on perception.
It's a fake world that swallows you in its entirety. You initially think that you can strike a balance but you can't. The hole within grows larger and larger because anything you find here doesn't last. It's like finding the next 'cocaine' fix in that sense.
The ecosystem works in a way where you are forced to spend a higher and higher self-esteem tax as you get older. The women here are also disillusioned with how men have treated them all their lives. So, their conscience is mostly dead. It's a vicious circle. The demand supply part anyone spews is absolute bullshit. Beauty is very common and these people have a strong scarcity mindset that pollutes anything that it touches. To drive the point home, only in India, do we see men pedestalizing these very average looking women (with a lot of make-up) because of the aforementioned scarcity mindset and the fact that they can't get anything 'good'. They think that they can buy them gifts and shower money to make-up for their lack of self worth. You know, it doesn't help as these men are perceived as the biggest chutiyas by the very women they desire.
Now, you might say that you are just being a nice guy, right? Bullshit. You are trying to manipulate her to get in to her pants. She knows that and it disgusts her or turns her into a gold digger. Either way, you get screwed.
Bars being a complete waste of money is the 100 percent truth. If you are young and you realize this early then that is rare. For the rest, everyone is an addict in some way and they keep trying to rationalize their descent from where there is no coming back.
SBs and OBs can get a person addicted to them and addiction can lead to broken relationships and finances. It's true the women in the DBs and SBs just look at us as ATMs or cash registers and might even call us chutiya behind our backs and make fun of us but if you look at it from a different angle, then who cares, yes they are milking you for money but if you can manage your self and not let it go out of hand it is a good way to enjoy. The girls are obviously uneducated and can't do anything better to earn the same money. Most of them have huge loans over their shoulder that they need to repay and there is no other option for them.
I wouldn't say people here visiting DBs and SBs cannot have an attractive and classy gf. They chose to go to Sb dB to just let their hair down, have some raunchy fun and live their fetish to get the daily routine frustrations out of their system. I mean why would you have visited a sb or dB or be a member of this forum if this was not true.
When both parties are benefitting from this equation then it's just a question of morality and nothing else and morality can be subjective in today's age. Yes for people who get addicted and show obnoxuious behavior, this is certainly not for them. For others they can have a respite.