Blonde Extras Jodi on BGFE

[Hawkeye Pierce]

I have two appointments tonight, one at 8 and another at 9:30.
My Iphone was updating on itunes and totally crashed, wont work at all... I cant get any numbers and when you call me before you come tonight, obviously I cant answer. I dont know how to reach either of you!!!!
Here we go, I just know you guys will show up and I wont be answering and you will be stuck on the corner trying to get address!!!!!

 

[Richard Ooi]

It was truely a pleasure. *sigh*
My love for chocolate has just gone up a notch

 

[mitchell38]

So...finally went to see Jodi. I had been looking for a great massage that also left a smile on my face...bingo!! Jodi is a very nice person who absolutely knows her stuff on massage. The massage alone is worth the price of admission and when you had the tremendous ending...it blew me away! Thanks Jodi.

 

[Cuiloven]

No comment

 

[vsexeuxjiyhigoesh]

Thanks for the advice guys!

I decided not to go for it. I think the fantasy is way better than the reality, especially since he is soooo hung up on his ex girlfriend still who is a pornworker/ escort. Im way too lazy to compete with that sexually I think.
Have a date this weekend anyways , woo-hoo!

 

[kyeskudhislizreez]

Have Alanis Morrisette's "Head Over Feet" playing the background. He'll get the idea.

BTW, my best friend is a woman. Our relationship was friends for a year, FWB for two years, and then we dropped the benefits (too complicated) and went back to just friends. We talk every single day on the phone. We're unusual, but it can be done. However, a critical ingredient for us is that there is a clear and unequivocal reason why a romance between the two of you would not work, and you each clearly and totally understand that. That kept the brakes on for both of us.

In our case, we know we love each other. We know we'd kill each other. We have to be in contact for 30-45 minutes each day or the day feels incomplete. But before a weekend together is through, we're dying for space from each other. I can't explain it. I feel that when we're each in our 70s, we'll retire to neighboring nursing homes and eat the early bird special at the diner together - and that's it.

 

[kfezluxviyzikoeqi]

Well Jodi. Hope this helps.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ladder_theory

Currently Listening: Weezer - Kids/Pokerface

 

[MANNEQUIN]

Jodi-

Not true. Guys do have friends who are girls, but are always looking to fuck them. It may complicate things, but with someone as hot as you, I'm sure the guy will find a way to make it work. I'm sure he's thought it through on all the ways he'd like to do it with you. I've never even met you and I've thought about it!!!!

Take it slow and take the risk.

P

 

[Matt Huihi]

Jodi - since giving advice makes me break out in hives...LOL...let me instead pass on to you a "reference" someone suggested to me years ago when as an impetuous youth - I found myself in a somewhat similar situation. Back then, I was required to visit a library to find it.....Now however, it is readily available in a complete, unabridged format on the internet.

Historia Calamitatum by Peter Abelard

"http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/basis/abelard-histcal.html


With geniuine fondness from an 'old friend'

Richard

 

[pucxgwco]

WOW! this is some well thought out and sound advice.

 

[Dae]

I'll tell you a guy-secret Jodi: We don't have friends who are girls. We have friends who are guys, and we have girls we are currently just friendly with but we haven't taken it to the next level yet. Now, sometimes we don't have any plans to move past friendship with a particular girl, but that's always subject to change. Most of the time, we just haven't seen a good opportunity.

This doesn't mean you can just have sex with him and then go back to being friends. Guys are actually more complex than that. Once you have sex with him, he will feel possessive / protective of you, and he'll want to keep having sex with you. Anything else will make your friendship feel awkward and eventually ruin it.

My advice to you is:

(a) Don't do this unless you fully intend to keep doing it until one of you is in a monogamous relationship.

(b) If the sex isn't that great, you won't want to do (a), which means the friendship will most likely be over.

(c) Don't have sex with him first and then later say that it was just for fun. Most guys can handle that if they go in knowing it's just for fun, but unless it's really his idea he'll expect that it's leading to a more-than-friends relationship, and finding out otherwise will be a blow to his ego and will make the friendship awkward until it dies.

(d) Don't try to manipulate him into thinking it's his idea. Any guy worth doing this to isn't stupid enough to fall for it. You'll just confuse him with mixed signals, and he'll probably back away from you to try and protect the friendship.

(e) If you really want to do it, be straightforward. Tell him "I'm not ready to be in a committed relationship, but the other night was really hot and I want more. Do you think our friendship would be ok if we took it further?" Give him time to make up his mind; it could be 10 seconds, or it could be a couple of days.

 

[-gemma-1990-]

Try seducing him - plan something together and then end up alone afterwards and make a move. I suppose you can talk about the just sex part of it at some point but, really, who would have a problem with that?

 

[Vandy Fan]

I wish I was that guy

 

[e w]

If this doesn't work out Jodi, I am more than happy to be of service, I look just like him.......

 

[comander bioch]

That's silly, Jodi. Just be straightforward - tell him the truth. It's probably his (or my!) fantasy. "I really like you as a friend, and I don't want to lose that. I don't want to date you, but I do really want to fuck you." It should work! I can't imagine anyone being too upset over an arrangement like that.

 

[Girly Man]

Why deal with all the drama and likely fallout that could result in losing a friend?!? Have sex with me instead. I PROMISE I won't want anything more from you, BadBoy's honor!

 

[Tom C]

So there is this guy I really really really want to sleep with and he is a friend. I dont want anything more from him than sex but am afraid he will want something more.
How can I make him think sex was HIS idea and not mine and get away with not dating him??? Im not going to directly ask him to do it because he isnt that kind of guy.. not that I think he wouldnt but I dont want it to play out that way.

 

[Bhuwisit]

Hey Jodi!
Just wanted to stop by and say hi! Sorry to hear about the migranes!!!
Anyway I hope to have some free time in a few weeks to make an appt.
take care and hopefully see you soon!
-E

 

[Judge Judy Sheindlin]

Jodi, thank you for this afternoons session. I really enjoyed the time we spent together. Thank you for taking my appointment on such a short notice. I'm already looking forward to our next sesseion the minute I left your place.

 

[BriaBabe21]

Check out "blonde Jodi" in the providers section and you will see all my info there. Hope to see you!
For everyone else, yes I know its the apartment (not where I work, where I live). I think there is some mold in the closet and plus there is just no ventilation there. I apartment hunted over the last couple of weeks.
Didnt get on the roof for the fourth but after much cajoling and argueing, my daughter convinced me to go to our "dog park friends" apartment for a roof barbecue which is right on 52nd and 11th in front of the park. So, he "picked" me up and we went and had front row views to the fireworks.
We danced salsa and merenge for hours and even though we are just good friends...we ended up making out. He said at the end of the night after many many drunken kisses ..."so now what"...which immediately put me under pressure ...but I told him, "it is what it is, thats all."
God I cant wait to see if it happens again. Sighhhhhh