Theres a technique CMT cant use, u cant teachโฆ
Hobbyist instinct.
โฆ check out the

RMT placeโฆ yer HE-radar starts pinging

โฆ go inside, check out who answersโฆ if u get a louder PING, go w herโฆ
Nowโฆ u gotta flirt

like anything, politely indicate yer singleness โฆ let it drop that yer wife left u = a gd oneโฆ & if theres any chance @ all, yer gonna get an indication nowโฆ
Worked 4 me