Fantasy or quick release!!!

[sweetbabyjamie]

Hey sexies, hope you ALL have been doing good. (& Staying sexy) hehe. its been a while since ive started a thread, and throughout the past few weeks ive wondered a few things!!!

Do you gents come in looking for a fantasy.,.,. or a quick release to you know. hehe.
When the thought of you going to a spa comes up in your head do you go there to endure in a fun time and escape reality or just for like the release and stuff. Its always been a question i am yet to ask- well now ive asked it!!!

For me personally i would go for a fantasy, to escape reality and enjoy a moment where its sexy and fun and will leave you saying wow! but some others prefer something simple and fun for other reasons!!!

xoxo

 

[EndingHappy]

There's no right answer to this. Different guys go for different reasons, and it could differ just from their mood. If you're just trying to take a poll, I'm usually a fantasy looking guy, but that's simply me.

 

[thedirtyone]

This answer is solely based on where you work. There are a lot of people here who only visit Asian holistics and those guys make look for the quickies but for anyone like me who visits licensed bodyrubs, I would be inclined to say some level of fantasy is required (certainly never ONLY for the release). If a quickie is what I want, I could get that for much cheaper rates at other places. Or if I'm really cheap, I can do that at home for free while watching porn.

 

[lotstoplaywith]

Hey sexies, hope you ALL have been doing good. (& Staying sexy) hehe. its been a while since ive started a thread, and throughout the past few weeks ive wondered a few things!!!

Do you gents come in looking for a fantasy.,.,. or a quick release to you know. hehe.
When the thought of you going to a spa comes up in your head do you go there to endure in a fun time and escape reality or just for like the release and stuff. Its always been a question i am yet to ask- well now ive asked it!!!

For me personally i would go for a fantasy, to escape reality and enjoy a moment where its sexy and fun and will leave you saying wow! but some others prefer something simple and fun for other reasons!!!

xoxo

It’s a distraction from the stresses of everyday life. With the right woman it can become a fantasy.

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

There's no right answer to this. Different guys go for different reasons, and it could differ just from their mood. If you're just trying to take a poll, I'm usually a fantasy looking guy, but that's simply me.

I am not really looking for a poll, just what people generally think and feel kind of asking so i know how to tellthe difference if someone is llooking for something quick or something different perhaps

 

[Hangdai]

Of course we love a fantasy. The fantasy is that I’m the most irresistible man you’ve ever laid your eyes, hands and tongue on, and you would quit your life in this industry if you were allowed to satisfy my every need from this day forward.

BUT, if you really made me feel that way, I should run away as fast as possible.

I’m actually just happy if you remember me the next time, and I feel appreciated, that’s all.

One of the reasons I’m kinda partial to non English speaking ladies is to keep some emotional distance, even though I do crave it.

 

[slipslidealways]

For me it is completely fantasy, to escape reality. When the MPA is good at it there is nothing like it.

 

[LostInnocence]

Fantasy Jamie. But you know this already. <3

 

[Lex luther]

All I can say is that we pay for time. We want someone attentive that is providing a service that we can say we have been satisfied. For a 45 minute session in my opinion it's a fantasy, being with someone that we feel is inticing and a bit riska. Looking at sweetbabyjamie for me she would be a fantasy. 100% enjoyable and the question back to her is can you satisfy the fantasy?

 

[masterdegu]

This answer is solely based on where you work. There are a lot of people here who only visit Asian holistics and those guys make look for the quickies but for anyone like me who visits licensed bodyrubs, I would be inclined to say some level of fantasy is required (certainly never ONLY for the release). If a quickie is what I want, I could get that for much cheaper rates at other places. Or if I'm really cheap, I can do that at home for free while watching porn.

This is what I think too.

 

[Squad]

It is not either or for me, I'm looking for a release more than fantasy, but there is always a fantasy aspect to the encounter. I'm there for an encounter that involves some teasing, some touching and eventually a release. Though I well know that there is a staged environment to all of this, I'm drawn to the notion of seeing how an encounter with a different provider plays out. But I would be really disappointed in the monetary investment without the release, but can easily relieve my self, so the investment is for the fantasy, but the necessary outcome is the release. I hope that makes sense?.

 

[felixami]

Pleasure - fun - soft silky skin - tits - pussy - ass - lips - dfk - daty - erotica...

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

All I can say is that we pay for time. We want someone attentive that is providing a service that we can say we have been satisfied. For a 45 minute session in my opinion it's a fantasy, being with someone that we feel is inticing and a bit riska. Looking at sweetbabyjamie for me she would be a fantasy. 100% enjoyable and the question back to her is can you satisfy the fantasy?

You couldn’t have said it any better hehe. I deffs agree with it being a fantasy when your with someone who intruiges and entices you! Deffs a turn on

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

Pleasure - fun - soft silky skin - tits - pussy - ass - lips - dfk - daty - erotica...

Giggly booty that’s rather spankable too hehe yummy

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

Fantasy Jamie. But you know this already. <3

Always making me blush <3 my favourite !!!!!! <3 <3 <3 hehe !! Xoxo

 

[qinging]

Fantasy Jamie. But you know this already. <3

 

[snoopdoggie]

I love both, the fantasy aspect of it, and the release. Humans are social animals, as we love to interact physically with the opposite sex for mental and physical health. Us men need to get our oil changed, so to speak, by getting our balls drained once every few days, or kms, whichever comes first. Lol.

Here is a list of just some of health benefits of sex:
1) IMPROVED IMMUNITY: People who have sex once or twice a week have significantly higher levels of immunoglobulin A. (IgA). Your IgA immune system is your body's first line of defense. It's job is to fight off invading organisms at their entry points, eliminating the need for activation of your body's immune system. This explains why people who have sex frequently also take fewer sick days.
2) HEART HEALTH: Men who have sex regularly (at least twice a week) are 45% less likely to develop heart disease than those who did so once a month or less. Sexual activity not only provides many of the same benefits to your heart as exercise, but also keeps levels of estrogen and testosterone in balance, which is important to heart health.
3) LOWER BLOOD PRESSURE: Sexual activity and intercourse is linked to better stress response and lower blood pressure.
4) IT'S A FORM OF EXERCISE: Sex helps boost your heart rate, burns calories and strengthens muscles, just like exercise. Sex burns about 4 calories per minute for men, and 3 for women. It also helps maintain your flexibility and balance.
5) PAIN RELIEF: Sexual activity releases pain - reducing hormones. It can reduce leg and back pain, menstrual cramps, arthritis and headaches.
6) MAY REDUCE PROSTATE CANCER: Preliminary studies have shown that men who ejaculate at least 21 times per month, have a much lower risk of prostate cancer.
7) IMPROVES SLEEP: After sex, the relaxation - inducing hormone, prolactin is released, which may help you nod off more quickly. The "love hormone" oxytocin, released during orgasm, also promotes sleep.
8) STRESS RELIEF: (How do you spell Relief? ROLAIDS. Just kidding).
No, really, sex triggers your body to release it's natural feel-good chemicals, helping to ease stress and boost pleasure, calm and self-esteem. Research also shows that those who have sexual intercourse responded better when subjected to stressful situations like speaking in public.
9) BOOST YOUR LIBIDO: The more you have sex,the more likely you are going to want to keep doing it. There's a mental connection there, but also a physical one, particularly for women. More frequent sex helps increase vaginal lubrication, blood flow and elasticity, which in turn make sexual activity more enjoyable.
10) IMPROVED BLADDER CONTROL IN WOMEN: Intercourse helps strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, which contract during orgasm. This can help women with their bladder control and avoid incontinence. You can boost this benefit even more by practicing Kegel exercises during sex. (A Kegel squeeze is performed by drawing your lower pelvic muscles up and holding them up high and tight, as if you're trying to stop a flow of urine)

So there you have it Jaime. A good question deserves a good answer. I hope this answer helps people realize the importance of the spa and sex industries.

 

[MNB18]

Of course for a good time - it is built up with fantasy and physical enjoyment.

It is quite normal for a man to fantasize connecting with a beautiful woman In his mind it might be anything but not necessarily solely physically. In realty, one cannot and may be inappropriate to casually talk to or flirt with a beautiful girl on the street who he does not know. In a spa one may have a solid chance or venue to see and connect with a 20 years old blonde beautiful girl, just like Jamie. During the session both the MPA and the client are close friends fulfilling the man's fantasy. What is the mind of a client who is in the room waiting for the girl coming in? Mr. Lost has an excellent description of this feeling and anticipation. When the door opens, the dream comes true - welcome to the land of fantasy!

I have one quick release experience, though - not planned and envisaged. After a massage by a RMT, may be she accidentally touched my sensitive area, I left with blue balls. The urge for physical need was quite immense. I called and went to a nearby semi-legit spa. I laid on my back and not on my stomach on the massage table. I frankly told the MPA that I had a need today. She knew right away and said with a smiling face: “What do you want?” Without waiting for my answer, she went straight ahead to please me. What a great release. This was so physical without much fantasy. I won't pay the price to Pure or Perla just for a quick release. It will be a waste of money. If one enjoys the preparation (I normally book a week ahead to ensure my MPA will be available and save the load) and the time with the MPA, one is flying the fantasy kite.

Unfortunately, Jamie, your door to fantasy land is not open on Tuesdays and weekends.

 

[Jmac]

I myself can usually get two shots off with the right girl that’s hot. Sometimes the passion is so much I want the release quick so I can enjoy longer and release a second or third time at a higher climax.

Emma at pure was good at this, though I didn’t enjoy much else. She actually asked if I’m super sensitive and if certain things felt good.

Honestly spending 150 makes me want to climax multiple times instead of one release. So I’d say fantasy helps to reach more/better releases.

 

[GordianKnot]

For me the release is a distant second priority. As aptly put by a member above...that can be done watching porn at home. I go for the connection. I find most MPAs at the spas i visit (i have not visited SPs) very intelligent and articulate. The whole "experience" is so much better when i find we are "understanding" each other. Never was interested in a Slam-bam-thank-you-mam. Never will be.
BTW i used to live in the US before moving to the Big Smoke. We are truly blessed to be able to walk in and spend time with these incredibly beautiful girls!