We've been seeing each other for almost 2 yrs but he introduces me as a

[Katie]

friend and tells ppl Im not his GF? Can guys only answer this one please. What does it mean when he can go at least 2 months without seeing me and definitely has no problem with not seeing me for a few weeks but yet we are still seeing eachother and going out together/sleeping togeather. We dont go to any parties/weddings or events as a couple, yet he's not seeing anyone else. His status on facebook and flickr and myspace is single while I left mine blank. We have sex with eachother, stay over eachother's apartments hold hands go to the gym sometimes togeather but he still calls himself single to others and to everyone says im just a friend. Then I found out there was this girl an actress he did a movie with and he met for coffee with her to give her the copy of the movie (when he could have mailed it) she's younger than I am, she's 22 and beautiful and Im 32 and he's 28. Well anyway when they were together I found out from a friend that when this 22 yr old asked him if he had a girlfriend he said "no not at all but i am seeing someone, but she's mad at me right now cause I havnt seen her in a while." And then he asked this girl if she had a boyfriend. And when he talks to this girl he just refers to me as "my friend." Why did he tell her that he hasnt seen me in awhile, why would that matter? Yet when I call him he answers the phone "Hey babe or Hey sweetheart" but swears im not his girlfriend so what gives? Is there a possibility our relationship could turn into more or not? Does he like this other girl? Guys I need your help.
He has also talked to this girl on the phone before and helped her out with a problem she was having and he acts weird around her and a bit nervous. (he didnt tell me this but a friend of mine overheard and told me)

 

[Deacon]

he is seriously keeping his options open. if you want more you won't get it from this guy...

 

[Erick]

hey wats up?

He is not committed with you and sounds like you are FWB with him. However he respect you though and thats why he hasnt gone out with the other girl. However he does like the other girl and with time he might end up replacing you with her.

 

[Dubbi]

Well I think you should be upfront with him and tell do stop referring to you as a friend and to start referring to you as his girlfriend. If he refuses or continues to refer to you as his in public brake up with him because that means he's not that into you.

 

[fuzzy!]

Maybe he's not serious with you or maybe he doesn't wanna commit to you at d moment, he wants to enjoy life & have fun with other girls too..cuz if he loved you he would have not shy-ed away from any1 & he would've told every1 ur his gf..but maybe he's a player, who knows?

just talk to him about this..

 

[BabeHeart]

I'm a chick...if you don't like my answer, skip it.

Your situation is going nowhere. You've spent 2 yrs as a "phuque buddy" for this guy and if no stronger feelings have developed on his part, you need to accept things as they are or move on. Apparently he doesn't see you as girlfriend material, and he told the other chick he hadn't seen you in a while because that might make it more appealing to her...so it would seem less like he was cheating on you and as if he wasn't chatting her up, right after seeing you (would make him seem kinda man-whorish).

He may or may not like the other girl...but he's not in love with you and after 2 yrs, it should have come about if it was going to. Sorry.