Question Taking MP on Vacation?

[Can't_Get_Right]

I spent ALOT of off-the-clock time with Asian Angela. Took her to dinner 20 times, drover her places, brought her food and did things for her.

What benefit did I get for my efforts? Nothing.

She would tell me she loved me, that I was her favourite, that we might be girlfriend and boyfriend when she leaves the industry, but that was all a Lie. She knew she was lieing and I knew she was lieing. These girls are con-artits aka Predators.

I would take Angela to dinner, spend $80, $100 etc., drive her somewhere and then she would give better service to some new customer that she just met and that isnt showing any interest towards impressing her. She would bump me and make me wait, pretend to fall asleep on me etc. etc. etc.

So, take my advice, you arent doing yourself any favours by spending $2k etc on an island getaway. The girl will still play you.

therefore follow -->
1) Alwayz make them need and depend on you so you have power over them. (Power is control)

2) Make them understand that you don't need them they need you, they are replaceable. Never let them no if you need them deep down inside.

3) Never let no1 get away with sneak anything cause once they feel they can get away they will alwayz scheme.

4) No matter how much you like or care for 1 or any of them, don't trust none of them. Like Scarface, who do I trust?? Me that's who...)

5) Alwayz stay 2 step's ahead of the game you have them playin.

6) Don't let them no all your Plan's. But alwayz try 2 no there's.

7) Make sure you own there mind's, body's, and soul's. (N test it out every often 2 make sure.)

8) Keep your bi[?] on the low as possible when it come's 2 family and hater's. (cause you can't trust none of them

9) Alwayz try 2 no whatz goin on...(Make them tell on each other)

10) Give respect when respect's due... (Follow these rules and you should b gucci.)

 

[tnycman]

WRONG!!! That is like saying all Chinese can not drive, all whites are privileged, all blacks are gangsters, all Muslims want to kill Christians etc. etc. etc. Maybe that is your experiences with mpa/sp. I would agree that the majority, lets say over 90% can not be trusted it's all about the money but I have met 2 out of the hundreds that I have been with that I have trusted and they have trusted me like family. I have gone to funerals in their families. To say that all are about the business is wrong. The hard part is to find the ones that you can trust and that is always the challenge. Like I said in another post to the OP DON'T DO IT.

Dude these bitches suck dicks and lick balls for a living and you're saying that you went to family funerals and got a relationship, they're fucking random dudes every fucking day, and you think they'll give a flying fuck about you or your feelings? You're a fucking delusional loser.. I'm sorry to burst your buble and give you a reality check, but the minute you're out of money you'll be forgotten.

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[krayjee]

Well said. # 1 and # 5 are the two most important ones we all have to have in this hobby.

 

[tnycman]

To OP defense, he never said it will be a romantic getaway, or he is looking to get hooked with her, all he is trying to do is get a cute bitch so he can fuck on vacation, assuming she has all her teeth and is above 100lbs..
Nothing wrong with that, as long as you got the money to pay for all that.

I wouldn't mind taking a hot bitch on vacation if money were no issue for me, ill fuck eat nice food and enjoy the company of a hot bitch, then we part our ways.

Once I'll be old, fat, bold, and ugly like some of you perverts here hahah, I'll save my social security money and take one with me on my vacay, but in meantime i enjoy what i got at home, and bust a nut here and there, nothing to crazy.


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[King Arthur]

To OP defense, he never said it will be a romantic getaway, or he is looking to get hooked with her, all he is trying to do is get a cute bitch so he can fuck on vacation,

He said he is doing it because he is a “hopeless romantic” and these girls have to get married one day so maybe they will marry him. He is Lost Innocence 2.0

 

[OG_funguy]

Seems there are a lot of guys on here that only know one type of MPA...those that fuck and suck for a living. Yet, there are many that came from "legit" places that won't do anything beyond the occasional hj (not even allow touching). Not all MPAs have glamorous lives making $10K per month and only care about money. You guys need to stop generalizing based on your limited exposure.

Plus, the OP never even said he was falling for this chick or that he is paying for everything. For all we know, he's just looking to have some fun with someone he likes. People need to friggen' chill out!

 

[tnycman]

He said he is doing it because he is a “hopeless romantic” and these girls have to get married one day so maybe they will marry him. He is Lost Innocence 2.0

Ahh i missed that, if that's the case, he will be the only one getting fucked..

The only person who whores love is @Ursus, too bad he's a faggot though..

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[c1000]

A lot of very bitter men here. Can't say I'm surprised. lol

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

Isn't it possible to discourage the OP from falling for an MPA without insulting them by calling them predators or damaged goods? The profession they chose isn't normal but it doesn't mean they are incapable of living normal lives and being decent human beings outside of this industry. Just because they can't love you, that doesn't mean they can't love other men that they meet outside work. They don't hustle you because they're evil. They do it because it's their job! You came to their place of work and therefore they see you as a customer. They'll take all they can get from you even if it means seeing you after work hours. If they aren't doing it, wtf are they in this business for?!

Some guys are so bitter that they can't give simple advice. They have to throw ad hominems to prove their points. They can deny it all they want but they've surely gotten their hearts broken at some point in all their years of hobbying. It's their fault they let it happen and now we have to read the same old tired vitriol from these losers. These women are damaged goods? Take a good look in the mirror again.

 

[krayjee]

KL,, we are talking about the majority of the Rub & Tug Body rub, holistic and some semi legit girls here. I know there are some real decent girls who never play games and just doing a decent living in this business. I myself do know a few of them from semi legit spas. Those girls never play games, just do their job and making honest living.
I have seen one of the best player at a semi legit spa and you will be surprised who that one is. She is retired now. She was the youngest and cutest one we have ever had in this business and she herself told me she can make everyone fall in love with her. I don't blame her though, I blame on the guys who fell for it.

 

[King Arthur]

Isn't it possible to discourage the OP from falling for an MPA without insulting them by calling them predators or damaged goods? The profession they chose isn't normal but it doesn't mean they are incapable of living normal lives and being decent human beings outside of this industry. Just because they can't love you, that doesn't mean they can't love other men that they meet outside work. They don't hustle you because they're evil. They do it because it's their job! You came to their place of work and therefore they see you as a customer. They'll take all they can get from you even if it means seeing you after work hours. If they aren't doing it, wtf are they in this business for?!
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But we are talking about guys like the original poster on this thread or Lost Innocence who admit that their motive is they think the girls can love them. The rest of what you say I agree with a lot. I like the girls I see and they like me because we are clear on all sides that it is business and we keep it that way. If you keep it business you can have good relations with the girls. If you are seeing them because you are a self described hopeless romantic who dreams about one of the girls marrying you then you deserve to be criticized because the things that guys are saying about you on this board are not half as bad as what the girls you are in love with are saying about you in the back room.

 

[Whitesnake1987]

If you take an MPA on vacation, every hour you will ask yourself:
"Is she thinking about how much tax-free money she is not making while on this trip"

 

[Cosomo]

If you take an MPA on vacation, every hour you will ask yourself:
"Is she thinking about how much tax-free money she is not making while on this trip"

Maybe the guy taking her is the taxman waiting to bust her.

 

[Shag]

things that guys are saying about you on this board are not half as bad as what the girls you are in love with are saying about you in the back room.

This is the only take away that you need to fully comprehend.

If you understand it not as a personal statement, but a generalization about what the girls think about the Johns as a collective group.

There are exceptions.

 

[dmarts]

Possible alternatives:
1) Get a friend with benefits assuming you can "pull" one to your satisfaction
2) Save yourself the (assuming economy which might not be kosher) $500-$2000 ticket + some compensation for her time ($$$???) + additional costs (transportation, food, etc.) from a 2nd person and go to Colombia, Ukraine, rural/provincial Russia, Vietnam (although i read it's low mileage/conservative) or the Philippines/Thailand if you need English speakers. If you're traveling why pay a premium price for something that isn't necessarily a premium service and, regardless of price point, is definitely not more cost-effective at economy, business & first class levels? Take the $2000-$5000? you save and have the time of your life in Thailand. Do you have any idea how far $2000-$5000 goes in a place like Thailand (or $1000 if it's only going to cost you $1000)? $5000 would certainly rent you a small harem of the best girls to follow you around and fan you & feed you grapes everywhere you go for a week. Don't want a harem? Want a girlfriend? Great, depending on girl quality/your negotiating skills/destination, spend $1000 and get the GFE for 1-2 weeks few Canadian women would offer to most of their clients.

I'm definitely not an anti-Canadian women nut job, but if you're traveling & *paying* there's far more cost effective ways to do it, without compromising quality, than bringing a Canadian woman to South America, Asia, Eastern Europe or the Caribbean

 

[Ursus]

If you want to find out whether this girl is worth taking on a trip to the Islands - no pun intended - have her listen to Justin Bieber and ask her what she thinks of him. If she says she doesnt like Justin, you know she isnt a keeper.

 

[joedesign]

KL,, we are talking about the majority of the Rub & Tug Body rub, holistic and some semi legit girls here. I know there are some real decent girls who never play games and just doing a decent living in this business. I myself do know a few of them from semi legit spas. Those girls never play games, just do their job and making honest living.
I have seen one of the best player at a semi legit spa and you will be surprised who that one is. She is retired now. She was the youngest and cutest one we have ever had in this business and she herself told me she can make everyone fall in love with her. I don't blame her though, I blame on the guys who fell for it.

Yuki from JR?
She definitely made me fell for her, such a surprise when I first met her

 

[krayjee]

Yuki from JR?
She definitely made me fell for her, such a surprise when I first met her

Nope. She is also good but not as cute as the other one.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

But we are talking about guys like the original poster on this thread or Lost Innocence who admit that their motive is they think the girls can love them. The rest of what you say I agree with a lot. I like the girls I see and they like me because we are clear on all sides that it is business and we keep it that way. If you keep it business you can have good relations with the girls. If you are seeing them because you are a self described hopeless romantic who dreams about one of the girls marrying you then you deserve to be criticized because the things that guys are saying about you on this board are not half as bad as what the girls you are in love with are saying about you in the back room.

I don't care about what these women have to say about me or you in the backroom. I'm not there so I don't know and won't pretend I know for a fact that they're talking shit. Most people just assume the worst in these ladies. Maybe that's because they're just obnoxious, unhygienic pricks and that's why they overthink what the MPAs think of them.

The problem with this board is a lot of guys are very extreme with their views. Some are too clingy and unable to separate fantasy from reality like LostInnocence while others are too bitter, jaded and demeaning of these ladies like Ursus. Just remember that if you look down on them for being "whores", then you're no better for paying them to fill your every sexual need. I just don't understand why there's no middle ground. Enjoy your time with your favourite girl(s), pay them, leave, repeat. If an opportunity arises where you can see the girl outside the spa, drop any and all expectations and you will enjoy the time for what it is.

 

[Can't_Get_Right]

an honorable woman will never do this type of work, so no matter the mileage they give, they have one thing in common, they are cray cray. take whose ever advice, your own experience may teach you otherwise but you may learn the hardway, you're better off taking that money and spending it at a number of different girls at spas to empty out your balls, on your own spouse and family, or go to a poor area in the gta, get some game together and pick up some good looking girl and she'll love you long long time and do your laundry, cooking and suckie fuckie.